Groovy Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Last I was on this site I was engaged ( 3 months ago). Well the guy was a gold digger and I guess that's a whole other post. Not much else to say but I kicked him to the curb and was glad. Now for my post, tonight is New Years and I went to my realtors house which is a spainish mansion in the neighborhood. I saw a somewhat cute guy and found out he was my friends brother (the realtor's brother). He has heard of me from her and I wondered if she brought me there as he is now divorced. He used the New Year as an excuse to kiss me and I let him. He was a gentleman and asked. When we said good bye the kiss was a french kiss and I was getting totally turned out by it. Our tongues were wrestling lets say! Now mind you I had been drinking. This guy smokes and he is old enough to be my daddy. He's not well off but no bum. I am 33 and he is 47. He has 3 kids and is a grandfather. I've never even been married, let alone have kids. I'm not sure if I was caught up in the ritzy place with talks of going out on her yacht and boozed up or what. Has anyone else been attracted to an older guy? Did it work? The oldest age I'd dated was 40! I'm so confused and for unknown reasons feel ashamed!
Weye Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 old enough to be my daddy...I am 33 and he is 47. Old enough to be a daddy? Maybe if he was having kids when he was 14! To the point. Its what's inside that counts right? 47 year old men come in all different sizes, shapes colors personalities, and maturity levels. What are you looking for out of a relationship? Get to know him better, find out what he's looking for. Find out wether the two of you click or not.
Basic Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Unless you're really eager for step kids I'd say just hang together for fun, nothing serious. He might know a bedroom trick or two that youngers don't. He'll probably be more sensative to your emotional needs.
933KJL Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 I have dated younger women and to be honest as long as they are not too young (and you may be on the verge of being too young for him) the relationships have been VERY rewardign for both people. If he is a grandfather--step kids are probably out of the picture--or close to it...besides you are not marrying him--yet. I have a bunch of female friends that also say that older men are better relationship material--more mature, etc. However, there are some issues of course---we ain't as buff as we once were, we might need to get up in the middle of the night to pee, etc. But we can usually go for more than one round, and as basic sais, might be able to teach you a few new tricks between the sheets!
newbby Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 he isnt THAT much older than you!! i would say once you get past 30, everyone is pretty much the same.
newbby Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 I have a bunch of female friends that also say that older men are better relationship material--more mature, etc. However, there are some issues of course---we ain't as buff as we once were, we might need to get up in the middle of the night to pee, etc. But we can usually go for more than one round, and as basic sais, might be able to teach you a few new tricks between the sheets! some older men may be better relationship material. others are just stuck in their ways.
orangele Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 he isnt THAT much older than you!! i would say once you get past 30, everyone is pretty much the same. I agree that by age 30 you probably are as mature as you ever will be. For two people past the age of 30 where there is a significant age difference, both need to consider what happens 10 or 20 years down the road, where one will probably be the caretaker of the other. 1
Gold Pile Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I agree that by age 30 you probably are as mature as you ever will be. For two people past the age of 30 where there is a significant age difference, both need to consider what happens 10 or 20 years down the road, where one will probably be the caretaker of the other. By age 30 most are reasonably mature, but I've watched many a guy (including GP) mature quite abit after that age.
Blackard Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 Goodness girl, Relax. Your emotions are about 5 miles ahead of your body. You just kissed the guy is all. ...and why are you feeling guilty? Because you kissed a man and it turned you on? The age difference is negligible at your age. Lose the guilt. Date him if you want. See where it goes.
justagirliegirl Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I agree that by age 30 you probably are as mature as you ever will be. For two people past the age of 30 where there is a significant age difference, both need to consider what happens 10 or 20 years down the road, where one will probably be the caretaker of the other. I used to think about that but that is going to happen even if people are close in age. Someone is going to die first. Someone may or may not get sick first. Someone may get cancer in midlife and suffer for years with it. The other person is the caretaker regardless whether it happens in their 50s or 80s.
justagirliegirl Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 It is only a 14 year difference. Besides you just kissed him. No need to plan the wedding yet. I have been on both sides. my former hubby was 12 years older than me and now I'm seeing a man 20 years younger than me.
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