gordon_gc Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 First of all, HAPPY NEW YEAR 2006 !!! May this new year be better than the way it ended for most of us. I guess I got my lesson today. She broke up w/ me, wanted to stay friends. At first, I denied then, I just accepted it on the basis than only someone having bitter ressentment would cut all contact and as a result, would indirectly shows signs of weaknesses. I kept the contacts with her, on and off. She flirted with me and I flirted back. 12 o'clock, a new year and she hasn't called or messaged. Of course I could do it too but I believe it should come from her (no game, just principle). She doesn't care so why should I care ? We are not together and I have to accept it now...I am not gonna waste my life playing a game with someone who doesnt know what she wants (or maybe knows it very well). GUYS, STICK TO NC !!! IT HURTS like a B...tch but that is the only key to happiness in the long term and the only key for a possible second chance. The other person has to realise things, grow up and you sticking around will not help. (Gosh, I am upset today;) ) I am waiting for posts from all the "mentors" (Caliguy, riobikini, grace2005, Jdub, etc...) in LS to make sure the message is going throught to everyone discovering this forum.
Author gordon_gc Posted January 1, 2006 Author Posted January 1, 2006 By the way, just thought I would post link to all the important posts written here...before initiating anything by yourself, read those, THINK ABOUT THEM and then make a decision Clingy behaviour by riobikini http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t77658 No Contacts guide by lost in chgo http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t35003 or by grace2005... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t77359 What a dumper feels (reply by lucreziaborgia) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t55268 There is a few other interesting articles that needs attention so feel free to post links !!
notmakingsense Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Don't forget the famous and very helpful guide by No Foolin' http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/
riobikini Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Dear gordon_gc, I was unaware you had written me into this post. Thank you and I apologize for just now discovering it. RE: your NC commitment, -in as many ways as you can say "I love you" to someone, you also tell them "It's over." No Contact says: I REFUSE TO BE ABUSED, IGNORED, DISRESPECTED, TAKEN FOR GRANTED, WALKED ON, LIED TO, CHEATED ON, F*CKED OVER, PATRONIZED, SEXUALLY DEPRIVED, LOVE-STARVED, JERKED AROUND, SCREWED WITH, DRIVEN INSANE, EMOTIONALLY TORTURED, PHYSICALLY ABUSED, AND ANYTHING ELSE THAT YOUR SELFISH, CONFUSED, MIND CAN DREDGE UP. i.e. In the famous abbreviated version of all the above, -NC! ( . ) That's 'period'. (Smile) Take care. -Rio P. S. And HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU, TOO, GORDON!
CaliGuy Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I am waiting for posts from all the "mentors" (Caliguy, riobikini, grace2005, Jdub, etc...) in LS to make sure the message is going throught to everyone discovering this forum. Stick with it, it's the only way.
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