Mz. Pixie Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Actually, Owl, I believe he last posted like he's not coming back unless it's to give us a update. You could start a thread about that topic though.
Mistaken Identity Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 What was the catalyst for this behavior?
brokenherz Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Yes, she has to move out or you so you can deal with the situation. I don’t think nothing gets resolved if you stay under the same roof. It must be horrible to wait for her to come back. My husband just left me and I want him to come back even though he has a girlfriend now. We were 15 years together and now I'm pregnant. I would like to get some advise from Mz. Pixie and Ladyjane14, Becoming and Owl. Please look at my situation. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t79261/
willknight Posted January 20, 2006 Posted January 20, 2006 ...It's time for me to look within myself... ...I am a very dark place right now,...Where I am in my own head...where those decisions will be made. ...I have made an appointment with a lawyer and a therapist. ...I will be covered financially and where the kids are concerned. ...I may not post much anymore, nor will I probably come back here... ...This sucks, but it's my life now and I have to deal with it. Hopeful your situation is nearly a mirror image of mine: timeframe, reasons (or lack thereof), another man, therapist, lawyer---the works. i stumbled upon this thread while looking for answers/wisdom to help me decide/cope. the collective wisdom of this thread, for the most part, is productive (kudos to those who contributed), which is my goal: distract negative feelings/thoughts with productive decisions/actions. i see that you have resigned yourself to "what ever happens, happens...", and you have mentioned the "l" word. contact me. i am still in the midst of it. i feel i may have something to offer, as what i am doing may help you too to cope. it's helping me deal with the separation more productively, and i think it is actually improving my situation. even if things take a turn for the worse, we at least could find comfort in each others' courage. just to let you know: i'm not offering any kind of magic pill (or any pill for that matter), or a quick fix, or "the answer". i'm not a sick salesman. i'm not a psychologist looking for work. i'm not a wholistic healer, etc. i'm just a guy who's in the same boat, adrift in the sea of emotional turmoil, looking for ways to make better of my life as it deals me this card. i'm just looking for land, for solid ground, just like you are. we all need a companion through all this, and that's what i am looking for. you don't want to do this alone, my friend; it may not behoof you and your children (nor your marriage/relationship, if you hope to salvage it). my companionship is here for you for the taking. all i ask is a friend, a kindred spirit to connect, in this time of need. willknight at pk1475 dot org hope to hear from you. (good luck, if i don't. time will heal all wounds, and like all things, it will pass).
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