GirlMagnet Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Hi everybody. Im a 16 year old guy still at High School and I find it very hard to talk in big groups. I still manage talking, but thats when the group slowly starts to break away. For example I went to a party last week and we all sat on the same table, about 15 people. And there was this one guy I was sitting next to cracking jokes, etc and every1 was loving him, and I wanted to say something but it didnt come out. I eventually did, but by the time I said it the joke was already over. Now in these groups, there were some pretty attractive girls. So could this be a fear that I am afraid of making myself look like a fool to them? A fear of rejection maybe? What can I do to talk better in groups? In class Im always the one answering questions and asking questions, but outside of school I really have trouble talking in BIG groups. In smaller groups Im really socialable, but my problem of talking in big groups is really affecting me. HELP!
Nicholas Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 That seems like a manageable problem. Just avoid talking in big groups, and wait until you're more comfortable.
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