islandlove Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Hi All. (i'm new here so bear with me.) Happy New Year - well at least i hope it will be. i've been dating a guy for about 4 months. we have been very open about everything in our past. and there are some things i wish he hadn't told me about his because it's bothering me and i can't get past them. he is still in touch with his old girlfriend. he goes over her house like once a week to work on things around her house - they've gone out to dinner a couple times since we've been dating. the way he talks about her it seems as though they talk a lot during the week - if not everyday. i feel i just don't have the energy or desire to work on this relationship. i don't want to date him anymore but how do you tell someone that on new years eve? any thoughts? thank you!
FireReady Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 It all depends on how important it is for you. Breakups are never easy, but you need to be straightforward with him. Is there a reason why you didn't cut it sooner? In any case I wish you luck and suggest you check out GirlsTalkAboutItAll, it might help.
Author islandlove Posted December 31, 2005 Author Posted December 31, 2005 i guess i didn't break up earlier because i was trying to trust him. i want to trust him. i've been working on trust issues from past relationships and i think they are getting in the way of this relationship which are not allowing me trust fully. i have told him before that i worry about him and his ex getting back together but he assures me they are just friends. thank you for the site ref.
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