Basic Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Have a date next weekend. Good chance this time or maybe next she'll say the words. "I love You" I like her very much, maybe I even love her some. But I don't think were well matched for marriage and such. I like our casual, exclusive dating and could go on that way forever. I'm worried she'll say it. How do I respond? Don't want to hurt her and don't want to push her away.
Art_Critic Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Don't say " Thank You " You can't stop people from feeling the way they do including yourself. Say something along the lines of "It makes me feel good that you feel that way..I can't say it right now as I normally need more time than we have had together " Either way.. if you don't think you are going to fall in love with her this may well be the end of the relationship.. It isn't fair to her if you are never going to feel the same to coninue on
clandestinidad Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 I agree. Why keep dating her romantically and leading her on if youve already decided it wont ever go anywhere. Its not fair to her Although, if its already understood where both parties stand, and you continue to date, then thats a different story
Lishy Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 You will not be able to continue as you are for too long. She obviously has feeling for you and if feel the same I think you should let her go and find a man who will give her what she needs. Also YOU need to find someone who you want offer more to than hot sex!
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