bullitt6109 Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Hey I wrote earlier under I dont know what to do about getting dumped after 3yrs. I went to vegas for a week with a lady friend of mine. I was to help me get my mind of things and to have a little fun as well. Today I was suppose to call the ex she said call me when you get back. I called her today and she was so mad her first line was "did you get F-ing married" I was like whoa. Then she goes on to ask is she prettier than me and did you sleep with her. Im blown away because shes yelling at me like I just cheated on her. I say you dumped me and your dating somebody else already why are you getting short with me. Then she goes on to say we are suppose to be best friend and your not telling me things. I go your not asking me things like a best friend, she gets upset and says I cant deal with this now im gonna let you go. I don't know what to say and go ok if thats what you have to do. She then says your doing all these fun things now that I'm gone, I say to her I wanted to do them with you, but you didn't give me a chance. She than says it doesn't matter im happy now. I go ok thats fine I will let you go now because I have to catch a plane. I was shocked that she would be so upset she broke up with me she started dating somebody else right away. I love her to death she is my best friend, but I cant just sit and wait for her. Does anybody else find this reaction really weird?
Dreamer084 Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 She wants to have her cake and eat it too..if you get my drift..She wants to control what you do even though you two are not together? Keep living your life man. Have a blast.
gfto Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 She dumped you. Why are you still in contact with her?! Anyway, she got upset with you, because you're supposed to be sitting at home, crying over her and losing weight! Not having fun in Vegas with a female friend! You just tweaked her ego. That's all. I'm puzzled as to why you care. After all, she dumped you.
Author bullitt6109 Posted December 31, 2005 Author Posted December 31, 2005 Well I care because I love her we have been together for 3yrs she was my best friend. The fact that she dumped me shocked alot of people including myself so its kind of hard to let go. I am trying my best to let go though.
johan Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 I had this happen once. I dated a girl for two years. We had a brutal little breakup, and she had the upper hand on me because she was developing a "friendship" with some other guy. It took us a long time to sever contact because we were such morons. A couple months later she heard that I was moving on with someone else. She was well underway with her prick "friend". She called me one day and the new girlfriend happened to be there. She asked me about it, I told the truth, and she went comptely haywire. I'd never heard her so venomous. It was like she handed the phone to an angry sailor. It was almost excorcism time.
Author bullitt6109 Posted December 31, 2005 Author Posted December 31, 2005 I think part of it is thats she is not as happy as she claims to be with her new guy. I think if she liked and was so happy with her new guy she would not care who I was with or what I was doing.
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