suzie35 Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Just want opionions please..... Broke up with my lt bf of 8 years...He could not commit to marriage i want to marry and have a family...We have been broken up for several months..he calls and talks to me like we are friends but he is making no effort to get me back...Should i just cut contact off with him and start fresh, i am having such a hard time letting go... If he loved me, wouldn't he make an effort of some sort???? Please help..THANK YOU!
sunshine4u Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Yes I would say that actions speak louder than words, and he probably is "just not into you" Sorry but better to know now then to waste more years with someone. Good Luck
whattofeel Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 i agree with sunshine4u. this guy isn't worth your time if he's not even considering your feelings on the matter of marriage. if he thought you were the right one he wouldn't even consider for a second being committed with you. let him go and see what he does after you go into NC with him. and i suggest start fresh with a NEW guy, and not him. find a guy who knows that he wants to marry you when the time is right
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