Whatdoesthismean Posted May 14, 2024 Posted May 14, 2024 So I’ve been talking to a guy for a month now. The first couple of weeks were great. Then by the second week he told me that he’s feeling a lot of pressure in making a decision about this relationship. A few days later, he changed his mind and told me that he is sure that he wants to be with me. We went on a few more dates, and we got much closer. He even told me that he really likes me and wants me to meet his family. Then all of a sudden, he said that he’s not as eager to see me as before and that he is feeling anxious about making a decision about me. He asked for a couple days to take time and think about it and said that he’d get back to me. I really like him. And I think this could flourish to be a wonderful relationship. I feel both physically and emotionally attracted to him and I don’t want this end. I really hope that he comes back. I just don’t understand where these emotional fluctuations are coming from because he seems to be really into me and he’s expressed multiple times that he really enjoys our time together.
basil67 Posted May 14, 2024 Posted May 14, 2024 So all this flip flopping and indecision is a trait you seek in a man? Please don't go falling for a man who can't even decide if he wants to be with you
goldengirls Posted May 15, 2024 Posted May 15, 2024 Is the possibly talking or having a relationship with somebody else? He could be going back and forth with choosing you over someone else.
glows Posted May 15, 2024 Posted May 15, 2024 Do you know why he keeps changing his mind? I ask because many are very aware of why a relationship or situation isn’t working and why they’re not compatible but are in serious denial or choosing to ignore the differences or things that bother the other person. He is telling you when he changes his mind each time. The guy could easily just say nothing and have reservations yet keep using you for entertainment but he’s not. He’s actually telling you when he’s not feeling it. I’d reexamine your conversations and ask yourself whether you see incompatibilities and concerns. You say you think it would flourish but it really isn’t. Are you in denial of major issues?
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