witabix Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 At what point do you consider a realationship a sexual one? Does intercourse have to take place? Is mutual masturbation the point? Somewhere in between perhaps? What are your thoughts?
whichwayisup Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Once the clothes come off it changes everything. If there is no penetration but there is oral sex, masterbation and orgasms, then it's a sexual relationship. Once penetration happens, full on sexual relationship. My 2 cents.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 I dated last fall who said that sex changes things. We had been semi naked to this point and soon after were sleeping together, fully naked, doing oral, but no intercourse. So I figured, we hadn't had "sex". We had a discussion later, after we stopped dating, and he made a reference back to his comment. He figured we had "sex" and I said we did sexual things but we didn't fu(k therefore we didn't have sex. I guess it depends how you view it.
Walk Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 I think anything involving contact with genitals is "sexual" in nature, and therefore it becomes a sexual relationship at that point. I classify it that way mostly on risk of getting an STD. We can talk about sex, we can kiss, grope, but once there's contact with genitals with bare skin (hand, finger, mouth, etc.) then it's sexual. Kind of a rationalized way of determining a sexual relationship for me...
JS17 Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 I think every person will define it differently. If you're really concerned, ask your girlfriend what she meant. Personally I think people's past physical relationships are in their past and while sharing info is ok I don't think it should matter. Some people put too high a value on past sexual relationships.
Outcast Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 At what point do you consider a realationship a sexual one? When genitals are involved.
travellingman Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 At what point do you consider a realationship a sexual one? ? When you're at a party and she starts telling strangers what your d!ck looks like.
Fun2BMe Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 When you've seen and/or touched your partner's genitals including female breasts, or gotten off from them when they are with you even if they are dressed. If the partner wasn't aware you got off from looking at them, then it doesn't count otherwise you could do that with anyone, then claim you have a sexual relationship with them.
johan Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Just having sex once doesn't make it a "sexual relationship". I'd think regular sexual contact that you both expect and are sober for makes it a sexual relationship. You might slip up with someone once or twice. I don't think that's enough. I think it's when you both acknowledge you've been doing it and you expect to keep doing it.
Fun2BMe Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Just having sex once doesn't make it a "sexual relationship". I'd think regular sexual contact that you both expect and are sober for makes it a sexual relationship. You might slip up with someone once or twice. I don't think that's enough. I think it's when you both acknowledge you've been doing it and you expect to keep doing it. That's an interesting point. Kind of like if you go to the gym once it doesn't mean you 'exercise.' Or if someone doesn't eat meat for 2 days it doesn't mean they're a vegetarian. They have to do it regularly and mentally have that commitment in mind.
pippen_2k Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Once you have had anal sex and jouney'd down the abyss, is when you can class your relationship as sexual.
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