BUTAFLY Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 well my situation is a little different from most women in here. I was the OW and didn't know it. and he was not married but engaged at the time. anyway I have let him go in my mind and left it up to karma to get back at him.. well that day is here and something tells me its only gonna get worse. and that make me smile:D . He got a promotion shortly after he got married and struts around work as if he was a king. well he just got word he is going to get laid off. for an indefinate amount of time. I ask him what is he going to do for money since his new wife has three kids and he has one from a affair on his first wife... I say in the most sweetest way possible ...how are you going to support your new family and your son? He kinda shrugs his shoulder and says "It will be like a vacation...I need one anyway, plus i can collect unemployment." I conveintley remind him unemployment is a max of 300.00 a week plus child support will come out of that. I laugh and walk away...PRICE LESS I TELL YA :laugh: kARMA IS A BITCH!!!
mopar crazy Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 well my situation is a little different from most women in here. I was the OW and didn't know it. and he was not married but engaged at the time. anyway I have let him go in my mind and left it up to karma to get back at him.. well that day is here and something tells me its only gonna get worse. and that make me smile:D . He got a promotion shortly after he got married and struts around work as if he was a king. well he just got word he is going to get laid off. for an indefinate amount of time. I ask him what is he going to do for money since his new wife has three kids and he has one from a affair on his first wife... I say in the most sweetest way possible ...how are you going to support your new family and your son? He kinda shrugs his shoulder and says "It will be like a vacation...I need one anyway, plus i can collect unemployment." I conveintley remind him unemployment is a max of 300.00 a week plus child support will come out of that. I laugh and walk away...PRICE LESS I TELL YA :laugh: kARMA IS A BITCH!!! What a jerk for not coming clean about being in a CR w/ someone. Not fair to you. Yea, he deserves this layoff. Most of his unemployment will go to child support. Since most of his unemployment will go to child support his new family will have to go on food stamps, medicaid, get help w/ energy assistance, maybe even a trip or two to the food bank, and not have a pot to piss in. What a jerk for putting his family through that all b/c he couldn't keep his d!ck in his pants. I know there are so many ppl on welfare but when you have never been on it and rely on it to keep your head above water it is degrading! I hated going to the food bank. It was so degrading and when you're not use to it, it makes ya feel like total loosers. If a person is trying their best to make it in this world and trying their best to stay off assistance and then WHAM they have to be on it, it sucks! I know what it's like to have a H on lay off and it's not good.
newbby Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 lots of people are trying their best but have to be on it long term anyway, so think yourself lucky and stop implying that those unfortunate people are losers.
mopar crazy Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 lots of people are trying their best but have to be on it long term anyway, so think yourself lucky and stop implying that those unfortunate people are losers. newby, you took that all wrong. I DID NOT say ppl who are assitance are loosers. My sister is on it b/c she has bi-polar and other mental problems and is on disabilty for it, I don't think she is a looser. My BF is on assistance b/c she is a single mom of three and half the time she doesn't get paid CS, I don't think she is a looser. I said I felt like a looser b/c I had to get assistance when my H was laid off from his job, not that I was, I just felt like it. I didn't want to ask for help, but didn't have a choice. I was on asst when I was a single mom b/c I also had no choice. I just moved, didn't have a job, and was just living off CS so I had to get asst. If a person needs it then I'm glad it's there but I know way too many ppl who are on it and taking advantage of it. They can work, they just don't want to. I was no way implying that this guy that butafly had an A w/ was a looser either b/c he will be laid off from his job. He was just a jerk for lying to her about not being involved w/ someone else.
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