She Likes me!!!... She likes me not??!! =\

[TokenBlkGuy]

Okay so there is this girl who works at this Restaraunt that I Frequent. I've been going in there for a few months now and have been noticing over that period of time that this girl really can't keep her eyes off of me. I catch her staring/glancing at me all the timr and when I do she shyly looks down and away. Anyway, About 2 months ago I finally decide to approach her. I did, asked for her # and got it without a problem. I've sent her Text messages periodically and for a while she seemed... a little disinterested. Sometimes she would respond, others she would. One time when we did talk on the phone she invited me over to her house and we spoke for a couple hours, after that... nothing. My main problem is she has NEVER called or Text messaged me at random. the only time she does is if i text her first. A few weeks ago i wrote her a letter telling her that I am interested in her and want to get to know her better in hopes of establishing a better line of communication between us. I asked her to call me in the letter but she never did. So i began to think shes just not interested... But still to this day, If i go into the restaraunt and she working.. i catch her staring/glancing at me just as she did before i ever approached her. Now she even approaches me and starts up a conversation with me when i'm there. I also should note that its not just the stares that makes me believe shes interested... I notice when I sit at the bar she has and still does go out of her way to get as close to me as possible, shes also gone out of her way to get me to notice her by standing directly in front of me but not saying a word.(this was before i ever approached her). I've asked her out with me twice but both times werent good, once she was going out of town and i know she was cuz she had told me the week before i had just forgot and another she had to work. Just last Night I text her asking if I could stop by and see her on my way to my friends and she said yes. So I did. Anyway... I get all types of 'buying signals' in the restaraunt, but she doesnt go out of her way to ever contact me.... What is the deal???!!!!!

-confused