GirlMagnet Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Hi, Im a guy and I just need some feedback from you guys (male and female) as how should I act towards my "hot friends"? I see my friends who act like jerks and the "hot friends" always laugh at their jokes, slap them, etc and I believe these signs to be good ones, but sometimes when they say something else the "hot friends" dont react and there are often awkward silences. I also see nice guys who act really generous towards girls and give compliments to them, etc and they act totally different to them. Should I act like the jerk or the nice guy, or should I act with a combination of both characters?
johan Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Hard to say. Whichever act you choose probably should be customized for each girl, because they are all different. Women can tell when you're acting, though. The best bet is to really figure out who you are and just be yourself. Women have a lot more respect for a guy who is that comfortable with himself. Actually everyone does. And if a woman respects you, then she's far more likely to be attracted to you.
Lucasarts Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 how bout you be yourself (as long as it isnt awkward hehe) seriously dont treat them as "hotties" just treat them as friends...do what you would do with friends, joke, talk, play, tease, all that stuff and dont be a nice guy all the time, it comes off as you want something from them (duh). be a nice jerk. make fun of other people to them, make them giggle, make a fool of yourself, make fun of them, but also respect who they are.
Author GirlMagnet Posted December 30, 2005 Author Posted December 30, 2005 Wow thanks guys, your comments really helped, I never thought of it like that. Firstly: Whichever act you choose probably should be customized for each girl, because they are all different. I thought that all girls were the same, but now I realise they're not, some are passive, aggresive, assertive, etc. The best bet is to really figure out who you are and just be yourself. I think I am a nice jerk type, but something strange happens. Usually in groups I am the nice person, but during 1 on 1 I love to tease, etc. Is this because I'm shy or lack self-esteem? Anyway thank you johan, I never really thought of it like that, maybe I should try to stop being somebody who I'm not comfortable with. seriously dont treat them as "hotties" just treat them as friends...do what you would do with friends, joke, talk, play, tease, all that stuff Interesting. So I should just treat them as anybody else? I guess that makes sense, because arent us guys more likely to act nervous around someone who we're really attracted to..O.o ic ic thanks. make fun of other people to them, make a fool of yourself I dont enjoy doing those types of things make them giggle,be a nice jerk, make fun of them, but also respect who they are. This I do enjoy. Thank you Lucasarts, your tips definitely helped!
Tere_Piyar_Me Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Hi! I'm female (Chamakchallo) from Lahore-Pakistan, giving u my feedback upon requested issue. U r quite right to do act towards ur's hot friends, either male or female. No problem they remain silent and nothing give impressions before u. I m female and also want to share with u any interest u wanted to be shared. Tell me in detail. Chamakchallo my anotrher id: <tere_piyar_me@hotmail.com>
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