Jump to content

Does he like me or is he shy or what ?


Recommended Posts

Mizzcasual

Do I make him shy? Doesn’t interact with others in the same way. After some time gave him my number wished him have a good new years he gave wink as said it , he saw the note He opened it , I got off he shouted have a nice day. He didn’t text me acting nicer or flirting more. Next time he saw me dressed up wished me have a nice evening. Next time his supervisor was there as I got off he said you welcome winking replying to me. More months til I saw him whilst getting off both wished have nice day etc went down a step turned back said I didn’t see you in a long time. He kinda half smiled saying have a good day again quickly.

Months til saw him again. Usual wished me have a nice evening getting off after thanking him. He doesn’t say much to others bye or nothing. Saw him again hair different smiled at him more said hi he kind of then hit touched the ticket machine held his hand there looking at at me smiling in a type of way. Had supervisor there I got off only said bye bye. Next time usual greeting done thumbs up slowly looking at me didn’t to others. Sat behind him first time he was more friendly than usual to others and fidgeting a little. When I got off he changed to cheers bye bye not the usual. Saw him again next day,  I was dressed up a little more he gave me smile when he saw me and done thumbs up thing after the ticket looked at me a bit more acted normal . Didn’t sit behind him. He was less chatty his normal self. Wished him to have a nice evening usual way .He just said bye bye. Not sure why he’s changed ?Is he trying to stop the interaction? Usually he always says back or caught off guard?  Need to try talk to him more .

Link to post
Share on other sites
stillafool
35 minutes ago, Mizzcasual said:

After some time gave him my number wished him have a good new years he gave wink as said it , he saw the note He opened it , I got off he shouted have a nice day. He didn’t text me acting nicer or flirting more.

This is really all you need to focus on.  He knows you're interested in him because you gave him your number.  He hasn't contacted you to ask you out.  The smiling,, saying hi, really means nothing if he's not trying to see you.  He probably already has someone and is being nice to a woman who he knows has a crush on him but that is where it ends.  No you shouldn't try to talk to him more.

  • Like 2
Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author
Mizzcasual
4 minutes ago, stillafool said:

This is really all you need to focus on.  He knows you're interested in him because you gave him your number.  He hasn't contacted you to ask you out.  The smiling,, saying hi, really means nothing if he's not trying to see you.  He probably already has someone and is being nice to a woman who he knows has a crush on him but that is where it ends.  No you shouldn't try to talk to him more.

Had a feeling he wasn’t going to text he comes across a bit shy  , he upped the flirting and things after I gave the number 

Link to post
Share on other sites
smackie9

He's flattered but not interested. Even shy guys have the courage to ask someone out if they like them enough. 

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author
Mizzcasual
3 minutes ago, smackie9 said:

He's flattered but not interested. Even shy guys have the courage to ask someone out if they like them enough. 

He acts different with me compared to others seemed to up the flirting etc after I gave the number.  

Link to post
Share on other sites

If he really likes you he will do his damnest to be close to you and will want to see you / can’t get enough of you. I’m sorry this is light flirting and being friendly only. If he’s not all over your phone, right smack blazing like a fire truck in your life right now he’s not interested. Gurl you dropped so many hints already. Dont waste your time.

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites
Ami1uwant

I’m a rather shy person when it comes to meeting a new woman without a reason/ motive. If you gave me your number if I had interest in you I’d contact you.  If I was dating someone I might have filed it away somewhere snd then reach out if I was single

  • Like 2
Link to post
Share on other sites
stillafool
2 hours ago, Mizzcasual said:

Had a feeling he wasn’t going to text he comes across a bit shy  , he upped the flirting and things after I gave the number 

Especially if he were shy he would have jumped to contact you after YOU gave him your number, if he were interested.  You couldn't be more clear that you want him.  I still think he has someone but is flattered by the attention you are showing him and nothing more.

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • 4 weeks later...
On 4/19/2024 at 4:51 PM, Mizzcasual said:

He acts different with me compared to others seemed to up the flirting etc after I gave the number.  

I think he’s interested but maybe just a little shy. 

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author
4 hours ago, happyhorizons said:

I think he’s interested but maybe just a little shy. 

He seemed like he was caught off guard when I sat behind him as well acting up more differently and changed his goodbye when I was getting  off which was weird  . His smile was way bigger  the next day he doesn’t usually smile that much .
Probably should  try talking to him starting a conversation ask where he’s from etc when it’s the direction of the last stop. See how he is usually I get off last stop last anyway . Maybe bring up we should WhatsApp sometime if it’s going good  .  So was he was too shy to text or wasn’t sure enough  or something? Our interactions have definitely evolved 

Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, Mizzcasual said:

He seemed like he was caught off guard when I sat behind him as well acting up more differently and changed his goodbye when I was getting  off which was weird  . His smile was way bigger  the next day he doesn’t usually smile that much .
Probably should  try talking to him starting a conversation ask where he’s from etc when it’s the direction of the last stop. See how he is usually I get off last stop last anyway . Maybe bring up we should WhatsApp sometime if it’s going good  .  So was he was too shy to text or wasn’t sure enough  or something? Our interactions have definitely evolved 

I think he is shy which is leading to indecision. 

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author
4 minutes ago, happyhorizons said:

I think he is shy which is leading to indecision. 

Is he’s not sure how to move it forward ? I   so I have to try talk to him first if he’s too shy ? Maybe that’s why he’s flirting more to see if I do anything else .Start a conversation ask where he’s from flirt a  bit  like say guys from “insert country” are good looking to whatever he says see how is if all good try swap numbers ?  

  • Like 1
Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author
45 minutes ago, happyhorizons said:

I think he is shy which is leading to indecision. 

Is he likely trying to see if I’ll will chat to him or something?I wonder if that why he’s done a few extra little things recently more obvious flirting . I’m too used to online moves . I think he has warmed up more apart from when I sat behind him he wasn’t sure how to act .

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author
9 minutes ago, happyhorizons said:

Hopefully, he will COME AROUND.  If not, you might have to "take the bull by the horns" and help him along.  

He seems more shy i feel like he’s probably waiting to see if I do something and he seems to be following my lead . I’m a bit shy too got more confident around him. I’ll try to talk to him ask where he’s from if it’s a good time maybe bring up WhatsApp if I don’t get shy . I’ll see how he’s responding . Maybe I come across different that’s why he’s shy with me . Should make him more confident around me if I try talking to him?

  • Like 1
Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Restore formatting

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
×
  • Create New...