daz Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Hey, this is semi-dating advice and semi me not knowing how to handle things. I'm a 17 year old male who's been dating a 16 year old girl for the past year, this is boths longest relationship and one of my biggest problems, im wondering how you all would handle it or am i just over reacting Tonight was an all ages concert at a nightclub which is usually only 18 and over. She informed me a week ago about it but it wasnt enough time for me to take off work, so she went with her cousin (also a girl) and her boyfriend which knew the band. Planning on getting completely wasted with them afterwards, :-O thats where my problem starts, this girl has already left me once for a guy for 2 months till it didnt work out and came crawling back so i dont like the idea of her getting drunk with a bunch of college guys in a band.. her story isn't stright, first the plan was to get drunk with them, then she said they werent going to be there, then it was they might be there, untill today she said both. She knows i dont like the idea and we argued abit about then and she came to the idea that she would go to the show then get a ride home afterwards but i dont think i can believe her at this point. Then i called her with my terms, i'm not going to settle with disrepect (who would?) so i told her she was allow to go to the show but no drinking, and if she still planned to then we need take a break with the relationship becuase she doesnt understand where im coming from. She still kept her word that she wasnt going to. But it'll still be in the back on my mind she is Did i do the right thing? how would of you all reacted, guys or girl it doesn't matter Thanks Everyone!!
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