gg-ab Posted December 29, 2005 Posted December 29, 2005 What do i do if i'm 17 and my girlfriend just told me that we should just be friends but i like her way to much to be friends and i can't stop thinking about her. all i want to do is be with her. should i just call her or ask her to hang out or just ask to start over at the whole going out thing.
fvlball54 Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 well, the way i see it...if you guys are already broken up, then u have a decision to make. if you like her THAT much, then you can take a chance, have your heart broken again (possibly), and tell her that you want another chance. the other choice would be a hard one to live with. you can accept that she doesnt like you anymore, because she might have found someone else, and move on. both ways, you are in a pickle and it wont be easy to solve this. my suggestion is...if you do just let her go and move on, i suggest trying to find someone else to move onto and do it quickly. as life moves on, the girls you like or even fall in love with, they get better (to u). they get prettier, smarter, funnier, whatever. but if you and your girlfriend are really over, its not a time to mourn because the next girl you find will be better than your ex. so, just imagine, if you really liked this girlfriend, imagine what your wife will be like, and how much you really love her.
Lifestream Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Talk to her about why she feels that way. Really, you have to move on. It's hard but this won't be the last time that you're going to have to learn that things may never be the same. "Every new beginning starts with some other beginning's end." Life doesn't revolve around a single person, and neither should yours. Could go on a bit more, but I'd like to hear more about what you have to say first.
Author gg-ab Posted January 1, 2006 Author Posted January 1, 2006 alright, so i talked to her last night and long story short, i convinced her to give me a second chance and go to a party with me tonight. now just to be on the safe side i was wondering if i could get some advice on what to do now?
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