gg-ab Posted December 29, 2005 Posted December 29, 2005 Ok i'm a 17 year old and my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 days ago. she told me that she just wanted to be friends, but i like her way to much to be friends and i can't stop thinking about her. all i want to do is be with her. So what do i do?
univ331 Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Been there man, it sucks. I know all that you want to do is call her and tell her how much you like her, and follow that up by going out of your way for her, but you can't. It sucks a lot, I know. I had this same exact thing happen to me when I was 17 and I tried so hard for so long to get this girl back as my girlfriend. It wasn't until I started leaving her alone and going about my own life that she started wondering what I was doing. It's tough to just be friends too because you'll analyze every encounter with her, your going to think she might want to get back together whenever she is nice to you. My advice is not to totally shut her out, but be there if she wants to talk, otherwise go about your life and show her that you don't need her to be happy. There might be something in the future for you two, but don't expect it overnight, play your cards right and be cool.
Jadey Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 Hey, sorry to hear about your breakup. I too am 17 and was dumped around 6 months ago. I know how you feel, like your wholde wrld have ended and you can't live without them. But you can! My advice is to not do what i done and call her all the time, asking for her back. It will only push her further away and cause you even more pain than you are in now. It is obviously going to hurt you to be just friends so my advice to you is fror now to do NC (no contact) Don't call her, text her, email her, don'thang around her and don't reply to any of her contacts. This will help you to clear your head, heal and also as a bonus she will think you can move on and that you aren't mopeing over her. Which you must want right?! Who knows what the future hold, maybe you will become friends once the wound has healed, but for now it will just hurt way too much trust me. Be strong Good luck.
Author gg-ab Posted January 1, 2006 Author Posted January 1, 2006 alright, so i talked to her last night and long story short, i convinced her to give me a second chance and go to a party with me tonight. now just to be on the safe side i was wondering if i could get some advice on what to do now?
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