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I Like A Girl Who Is Already Involved!!!!


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I have came back here for advice, I think i'm falling for this girl, who is my friend, she is a lil younger than me and has a bf. I'm falling for her and I want her bad. When i'm around her I just want her. Would it be wrong to do things with her and end up getting with her?? Should I tell her I like her even tho she has a boyfriend??

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I like a guy who has a girlfriend...I've decided that as much as I want to spend more time w/ him and persue something, I cant until he decides on his own to break up with her. There are too many negative things associated with breaking people up. Karma

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been in this situation before, basically just cool your heels and be a friend... if you can keep your presence in her mind/life as a friend and shoulder to cry on then when the opportunity arises (break-up) then you're the go to guy to console her and...be there for her. Oh and always try to keep her smiling/enjoying your company, its surprising how good the results of being an entertainer for a girl is. Oh and don't obsess over her, its not healthy and nothing good comes out of it.

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well, Lucasarts said some good things there. of course you should be this girl's friend. dont tell her quite yet that you like her, you have to work into it, VERY slowly. be her friend, be the one that makes her laugh, be the one she can talk to, but you always gotta be concerned about being that "nice guy". i've been a nice guy for about my entire life. if i know anything about that situation, it doesnt go anywhere fast, so u gotta be patient. something good will come of being the nice guy eventually. trust me, i was single for a LONG LONG time, and just 9 months ago, i found the love of my life. so, get close, be big part of her life, one of her everyday friends. but when u sense that "nice guy" stuff, try to back off a little, just a little.

o, if you can try to limit your interactions with her to make them good times in her life. a girl, subconsciously, will tag memories onto her feelings of men. and if you can give her times when she laughs and is having fun, u will be on the right track. try to not be around when she has some serious problems, console her, tell her u r there, but try to limit your interactions with her during that time.

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