so_confused_now Posted December 29, 2005 Posted December 29, 2005 My ex and I have been broken up for 8 months now. We keep trying to be friends but I feel like there is more between us. He calls me everyday (multiple times - to check in and see how I am doing and say hi) and even emailed me from some internet cafe in Greece during his trip there this week. He tells me he loves me and always calls to say he misses me. But if he feels this way why aren't we back together? Does he really mean what he says or is he just saying it on a superficial level? Why does he tell me he thinks about me constantly and misses me and regrets our breaking up... but not do anything to fix the situation? He is moving away soon to do a five year professional school degree on the other side of the country (where his family lives). I want him to stay here and be with me and I want us to give our relationship a second chance ... he still has the option of accepting a school right around where I live. I feel like I can't ask him to because we aren't together but I am still in love with him. I know he knows exactly how I feel ... and he knows if he wanted to he could be with me again. Why then are we apart? It isn't normal to call your ex everyday (sometimes 3 times a day) just to say hi and hear about there day if your over them, is it?
ciara12step Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 i hear an 'i love u' from the girl im currently havin space with because she is confused .. it's like people can say alot of things, but their actions will show differently .. u should just try not to be so available, and make him miss u even more .. he might come around and change ..
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