Kimberly Posted December 29, 2005 Posted December 29, 2005 I have been separated from my husband for two weeks but he still resides at the same residence. I told him to get a job and get out. Ok here is the story. Married for 10 years he has had a job for only 1 of the 10 years. No job, no bank account, no vehicle, he only has health insurance because I put him on the policy that I have from work. He only has car insurance because I put him on the policy and I pay for it. He drinks at least a 12 pack of beer a night while playing spades on the internet. He rarely takes a shower and I cannot remember the last time he brushed his teeth. It is disgusting. He needs to grow up and learn how to live on his own, I am tired of taking care of him. I need to find someone who will take care of me as well. I have had enough. I should have ended the marriage years ago. I have not had a real marriage with him for quite some time. He thinks that doing the dishes and laundry qualifies him for doing work. It is ridiculous for letting this go as long as it has, but now I am finally standing my ground. I told him that I do not love him anymore and that I want him to leave and find his own place to live. I want and need so much more out of my life than I have gotten in the last 10 years. I am going to find a divorce attorney this week and if anyone can give me any advice on how to do this, please feel free to let me know.
Scott S Posted December 30, 2005 Posted December 30, 2005 I would assume that at least 25% of your yellow pages consists of listings & ads for attorneys. Other information may be obtained from the State Bar Association where you live, or you may wish to ask friends, co-workers, & acquaintances for any referrals. I'm sorry to read that this relationship has been so disappointing, & I wish you well going forward with the rest of your life.
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