lilmoma1973 Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 How many get tired of the inlaws making such mean things to you? My MIL can be so mean and i think she thrives on mean things to say !!! She told me i could borrow her dresses for a funeral that i had to go to!! I asked her what size they was cause i commented i had nothing to wear for the cold and she offered me hers !! I looked at her and asked her what size they was and she said 12 !! I was furious to know that she thought i was that big knowing a wore a smaller size!!! Really pissed me off !! I told her sorry i wore a 7/8 and she looked at me and said oh really like she didn't believe me!! My MIL pisses me off at the things she says!!! She even have the nerve to tell my h he was fat !! She is so cruel and doesn't think before she opens that mouth!!! My h isn't fat and that is her own son!! She sure don't have no damn room to talk !! She is so redneck looking it isn't funny !! I think she is jealous of me because im very attractive and she isn't!!
JadeStar Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 Sounds pretty childish. I would ignore her, especailly if you know she does things to get to you. Jade
Author lilmoma1973 Posted December 28, 2005 Author Posted December 28, 2005 I know and i didn't let her know it bothered me but it still pissed me off!! I'm not fat ,not skinny as i was , but she is calling the kettle black telling someone they are fat!!! She teased me all the time while i was preggo ,that because i exercised my baby was going to be in an incubator!! She always make comments to me "boy i can't wait till you get fat" She is mean and i seen it throughout my pregnancy !! She always makes comment that my daughter is going to be like her other granddaughter to my h ,and it makes him mad!! I don't know what her problem is but if someone says ugly things to her she don't like it!! Never will like her i guess she is so cruel to me !!!
Maria46 Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 Maybe she didn't mean it that way and you are being defensive. You could have said to her that her dresses might be a little big, but could try some on to see if one would work. Being a size 12 myself, I have offered to loan clothes to women that wear a smaller size. Add a belt and they fit well. She was just trying to help since you had nothing to wear. And I have also teased my son about putting on a little weight. He had always been a very skinny young man and has started to fill out. You seem to really dislike her after reading the comments you wrote. Maybe she knows that you dislike her "redneck looks". What does a redneck look like??
Author lilmoma1973 Posted December 28, 2005 Author Posted December 28, 2005 Maybe she didn't mean it that way and you are being defensive. You could have said to her that her dresses might be a little big, but could try some on to see if one would work. Being a size 12 myself, I have offered to loan clothes to women that wear a smaller size. Add a belt and they fit well. She was just trying to help since you had nothing to wear. And I have also teased my son about putting on a little weight. He had always been a very skinny young man and has started to fill out. You seem to really dislike her after reading the comments you wrote. Maybe she knows that you dislike her "redneck looks". I try to be nice to her and it gets me no where !! She even makes comments about discipling my ss and how i wasn't on him that time and she was surprized that i said he was doing good!! We try to discipline ss and she baby's him and thinks he can do no wrong!! She lets him get on the puter and he been looking at porn and she said he wasn't but we caught him on ours!!! It don't matter how i treat this women, she will always be mean to me ,and i think she is jealous !! She dresses so plain and pajamas all the time never wears clothes and doesn't fix her hair and no make up!!! She had a cigerette in our wedding pictures and wore black so tell me she likes me!!!!
basketballfan Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 You have 3 choices here. Either ignore her and accept the fact shes the way she is. Cuss her out and vent your feelings to her, which will probably solve nothing. Or kill her with kindness. If you have tried all those things and nothing works, then sorry.
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