TMonkey Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 Hi everyone. I just wanted to drop a note for all those who are slowly getting over their ex's. I've discovered something that either a.) helps you get over him/her, or b.) is just a weird lucky side effect of a breakup. Since I was dumped by the love of my life months ago, I've found something very strange: I am fearless with the opposite sex. Whenever I meet a pretty girl or talk with a potential date, the second I begin to ask those questions that guys do, like "Is she in to me, do I have a chance," etc, I simply think of my ex. This has a strange effect. On one hand I miss her, and on the other hand I realize I couldn't care less if this person in front of me. A If I get shot down, it wouldn't matter to me at all. And you know what? It makes me fearless. I meet girls on the train, at parties, pretty much anywhere I want. The downside is I haven't met anyone I'd fall in love with. The upside is that I'm pretty well armed for the search. Just a thought.
Zetter Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 that is hilarious. I am in the same boat. I talk to women with realtive ease because I know it isn't something that I'm really into now, and have no problem if they blow me off. It gives you a subtle confidence and an I don't give a rat's ass attitude that women seem to love. I'll never understand it, but somehow it seems to be a turn on for both genders.
Brittanyjean06 Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 yeah you don't have a problem with them blowing you off, because you are still in love with your ex... you know your over your ex....when who ever turns you down you feel slightly upset over it.....!
AltplanB Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 yea im in the same boat man and let me tell you, when you get shot down, it feels like ****. Not exactly at the moment it happens, but when your home alone, believing that your ex is so much happier without you. All i do when im not around people that im not having a blast with, i think about her and get really depressed, sometimes sick. when your still in love with someone else, all you do is compare other women to her. You need to hang back and chill with your friends and that next woman may just fall right on your lap:) but whatever thats my stance.
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