incognito Posted December 27, 2005 Posted December 27, 2005 The last time I went through NC w/ my ex I had a girlfriend stay w/ me for a whole week, she was going through the very same thing. This time I'm alone. He was my best friend, as well as a BF. Last time seemed easier I don't know what to do w/ myself this time?
buzz fizz Posted February 3, 2006 Posted February 3, 2006 hi, im sorry to b nosey but i have no idea whatnc means, would u b able to let me know. thanks
Apathygrip Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 NC means no contact Drink......walk around.......wallow, you just gots to go through the grinder for awhile. No two ways around it ya know?
fooled Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 I wouldn't drink. I get all emotional and I'd call my ex. Initially I spent a lot of time here on LS. Read everything I could about coping with healing a broken heart. Read everything I could that was remotely similar to my situation. All you can do the first week is wallow. It hurts like a f***er. Still does a month later, but I just broke NC. I'm not as smart as I thought I was. Learn from my mistake.
Author incognito Posted February 4, 2006 Author Posted February 4, 2006 Hey...I can answer my own question!!! I spent a while drinking and wallowing But yesterday...I joined one of those dating sites w/ the intention of ONLY meeting people to chat w/ (not to date anyone) and it actually was fun...at least it kept me from drinking, wallowing and balling all night I have been soooo alone because I have cut myself off from almost ALL my friends in an attempt to get over my ex...since we know all the same people This was ok
Apatygrip Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 Hey...I can answer my own question!!! I spent a while drinking and wallowing But yesterday...I joined one of those dating sites w/ the intention of ONLY meeting people to chat w/ (not to date anyone) and it actually was fun...at least it kept me from drinking, wallowing and balling all night I have been soooo alone because I have cut myself off from almost ALL my friends in an attempt to get over my ex...since we know all the same people This was ok when a mans heart is full of tears the mist disapears when a woman apears
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