snailz Posted December 26, 2005 Posted December 26, 2005 Hey all, pls help me out if you can. I was seeing this lad for a year and a half, nothing really serious but we spent alot of time together. In June we broke up, i was devasted but we continued to sleep together, he told me the reason in september that he liked one of my friends (even though he likes me) and really wanted to give it a go with her. i was pretty annoyed and we had a huge fall out. My friend is bi sexual, and is not interested in him thankfully but i decided its best to keep away from him regardless. these past 3 months have been so hard, everyday i missed him but slowly it got less and less painful even though deep down the feelings were always still there. Christmas eve i was out and he came up and spoke to me for the first time since september. we got on really well and i know it wasnt right but we slept together, the no contact has been broken and now he's on my mind again. what can i do? i thought i was coping and getting over him but now im back to square one. do you think if i just totally ignore him it will hurt less?
riobikini Posted December 27, 2005 Posted December 27, 2005 Snailz, You aren't the first one to step into that pile of 'doo'. It probably wont' hurt any less than before, but you are right about taking up the NC again. Take care. -Rio
Author snailz Posted December 28, 2005 Author Posted December 28, 2005 hey thanks for your reply. im just worried that if i take up the no contact thing again, he'll think im being ignorant or playing games. we used to be friends before we first got together and we got on great, maybe i could get that back?
slubberdegullion Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 we used to be friends before we first got together and we got on great, maybe i could get that back? Not a chance. Keep NC and move on.
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