memes Posted December 25, 2005 Posted December 25, 2005 To cut a long story short, I got together with the ex. Things didn't work, and we just recently broke up. From my point of view, this second experience clarified to me that I do not wish to have him as a lover anymore. I love him dearly as a best friend, and I do not want to lose him. He initiated the break. He felt that he didn't love me and there was not passion from his side. He also was afraid to remain friends because being this the second time around, he feared that our on-again-off-again attraction, would lead us to have one of those on-off again involvements, to the detriment of each of us being with our respective true love. Something died in me this second time, and I know in my heart that I will never be able to see him as a lover ever again. I didn't fight the break, I agree with it. He is the one true best friend I have ever had, and the same for him with me. We say things to each other that we never told anyone. I just don't want to lose him as a friend, and I think that it will be very very unlikely for us to get back together as a couple. As I await that he thinks about it and lets me know, I just wanted to ask your opinion on my situation. TIA
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