beyondblue Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 My boyfriend says he loves me , this is his definition of love? I love you but I will cheat on you and lie to you constantly. I will always look and stare at other women to make you feel like ****. I let my friends and family degrade you and not defend you. After we've been together for over 3 years, I will finally invite you to my parents house for Christmas, but only because you nag me about it. After 4 years together I still don't know exactly what day your birthday is, but I will give you something cheap and meaningless the day after. I'll hurt you so much, I'll make you want to leave me, and after you've moved over 1000 miles away, I'll beg you to come back, telling you I want to get married. You will come back and find out I've been seeing some one else the whole time and that I don't want to marry you. I will hurt you over and over again and make you feel so bad, you attempt suicide. And then I will tell you you are crazy and need help. I will see you crying and not once comfort you. I am a very important man in the community. I get any woman I want because I am good looking, have money,and am well known. I can do whatever I want to you and no one cares. They all still think I'm a great guy. 1
ashley83 Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Yeah, it's hard understanding why people can't just be decent human beings, like you and me, especially when you fall in love w/ them thinking they feel the same BECAUSE THEY SAY SO!!! It's really screwed up. I'm still trying to figure my ex out. Hang in there. Many are going through the same.
Tiny Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 I'm sorry, I live in that world too I really hope things get better soon. Tiny
riobikini Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 BB...I lived in that scenario for 3 and 1/2 years....(I tried to 'fix' everything, -him, his problems...it doesn't work that way)....it ended in divorce. It's abusive: i.e. belittling, draining, even dangerous....and the list goes on. You'll never be 'the one' in his life. He only loves himself, -and lives for himself. Get out. Stay out. And don't look back. Take care. -Rio
FireReady Posted December 25, 2005 Posted December 25, 2005 Amen! Keep away from him you don't need that in your life. And take a look at girlstalkaboutitall, you'll see that you're not alone ant there are many ways of coping with scum (first and foremost is to clean your hands of them;) )
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