huh? Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 okay here goes there is this guy at my school i like him and he is really nice to me and i have dreams about us going out and being a couple he is single:laugh: so am i and it seems every where i go he's therelike if i drink at the water founten so does he if we get to choose what we want to do for recess i pick 4 squar and all his friends pick basketball he is at the 4 squar with me and in class at the corner of my eye i see him looking at me and at lunch he omes up to me and my friends and says hi and all but i dono if i should ask him out or not last time i asked a guy out he rejected me it really hurt me and i don't want that to happen with this guy he is practitcly all i think about i'm a teen and he is just running through my mind i think he likes me but i thpought that other guy liked me 2 turnes out he didn't so i want you guy's oppinions on asking him out should i or shouldn't i?????????
Author huh? Posted December 24, 2005 Author Posted December 24, 2005 soooo??? please reply i'm sooo confused
Brookiedoll87 Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 Okay , i am eighteen years old - i have seen rejection, and have been rejected.. but heres the thing.... what doesnt kill you- makes you stronger. If i were you i would deff. go for it, i mean what do you have to loose... and if ou dont do it you will always think to yourself about like... the "What- Ifs"... "What if he had of said yes?" -- "What if we became a couple and it was a match made in heaven?" --- All you gotta do is ask... a rejection wont kill you... and if he doesnt say yes , then i am sure later on he will regret it cause someone else will sweep you off your feet and you wont even be able to remember his face... Do it... like i said... What doesnt kill you will only make you stronger
clandestinidad Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 ROTFLMAO.....4-square!!!! hahahaha aahhh, how I loved that game! how old are you?? anyway, just ask him out. I asked out my first guy in 5th grade...granted he rejected me, but I tried it anyway! I've learned over the years to be BOLD in whatever you want to say or do. Some people respond well to it, some people dont...but youre still true to yourself, and what can anyone say about that?! Be BOLD!! Things rarely happen when no one does anything
Lifestream Posted December 28, 2005 Posted December 28, 2005 Who knows, maybe the guy will be flattered that someone actually asked him out for once.
Author huh? Posted January 2, 2006 Author Posted January 2, 2006 i'm 14 and i agree with you uys i'm gonna try to ask him out:p
Lucasarts Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 Okay , i am eighteen years old - i have seen rejection, and have been rejected.. but heres the thing.... what doesnt kill you- makes you stronger. If i were you i would deff. go for it, i mean what do you have to loose... and if ou dont do it you will always think to yourself about like... the "What- Ifs"... "What if he had of said yes?" -- "What if we became a couple and it was a match made in heaven?" --- All you gotta do is ask... a rejection wont kill you... and if he doesnt say yes , then i am sure later on he will regret it cause someone else will sweep you off your feet and you wont even be able to remember his face... Do it... like i said... What doesnt kill you will only make you stronger listen to your older more experienced and knowing female's advice plus i always like it when a girl asks me out, even if i dont like her in that way i still try to be friends with her. no i dont lead them on either, i hate when ppl play games.
Curt Posted January 2, 2006 Moderators Posted January 2, 2006 Hey, I say, give er! If he says yes, then you're golden. If not, then you will know you were self-confident enough to give it a go. Either way, you'll be able to say you didn't pass anything up. Let us know how it goes. Curt
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