WCCJESSE Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Ok well things have been good for me and my g/f for some time now so i finally decided to ask about the whole sex thing.Well she tells me i like to get to know a guy which i had no problem with .But then she says i give every guy a 2 month waiting period to even consider it.My question is i'll forget the fact she teases like hell but 2 month limit for some reason i took that the wrong way it's like i'm a kid waiting for something what was the reason she said that.
sparticuss Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Ok well things have been good for me and my g/f for some time now so i finally decided to ask about the whole sex thing.Well she tells me i like to get to know a guy which i had no problem with .But then she says i give every guy a 2 month waiting period to even consider it.My question is i'll forget the fact she teases like hell but 2 month limit for some reason i took that the wrong way it's like i'm a kid waiting for something what was the reason she said that. Two months is not an unreasonable time. BUT You said she teases like hell. Sounds more like one of these spiteful types who is trying to just give you a hard time to see how far she can push you. Thats when two months becomes three months but not until the end of two months. And then four and then five. And the hang up over the time and not the person is bad form too. If you were worth is she wouldn't be waiting two weeks. This may not be the thing to getinto a fight over but it is something to treat the whole relatioships with real caution over. If she is reallyhung up on two months then tell her NOW that its two months and not two months and two days or you will walk out. And if it even looks like becoming two months and two days, then walk out long before the two months. If you have a worthwile relatioship then she will change her tune reall quick and will want you back. If she doesnt change her tune then, unfortuanately, you've been conned. You never hada relationship in the first place.
cplfun13 Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 What do you mean by teasing you? Are you talking about kissing and getting worked up or something more? If she’s teasing you like rubbing and playing with your man hood then walking away, that’s something that you have to not let happen, and also ask her why she does that. There is nothing wrong with you asking her about it. 2 months is definitely not unreasonable. I actually used to have a 3 month waiting time. It wasn’t to be mean, it was to assist myself in not making rash, regretful, choices with a person that I would later kick myself for. Plus it is safer on a few levels. Talk to her.
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