teethbrushes Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 My ex and I have been broken up nearly a year. He acts really silly around me see: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t77594/ for background. I think I'm pretty much over him, but do miss him as a friend. He treated me like a princess (until he dumped me randomly), and everyone I know always talks about what a great guy he is. I see nothing wrong with being friends with someone who you used to date if its not stirring up feelings. He used to want to talk to me and I'm sure if I had never said I was glad we broke up, he would still be talking to me and/or we would be back together. I think I took the "power" away from him, so he's trying to regain it in his behavior patterns (see above post), probably not even conciously. I don't think he's a bad person. He expressed that he wanted to be friendly with each other, but is having a hard time doing so I usually just leave him alone unless I need computer help lol. I figure he'll come around eventually, even though he's apparently been over me for the 10 of the 11 months we've been apart, and his behavior does NOT reflect that. At any rate, I wanted to send out a Christmas greeting via my mobile phone on Christmas with a mass text message. A lot of my friends do this. I was going to put something so it was clear it was a mass message since I'm still such a HUGE deal to him. I don't really care if he responds because I assume he wouldn't (he would probably respond if it was a one on one thing and I asked him a question or sent him a note...but it usually takes him a while unless its a straightforward question like a computer). Should I do it or leave him out?
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