ged293 Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 We broke because she cheated on me but says that she did not sleep with him only messed around. I am thinking about getting back together with her, but needed to know if there was some type of medical exam like a rape test that I can have proof that she did not have sex with another man? I had heard about a gyno being able to do this..I need to know for sure..I know eventually I can trust her but right now this is what I need to make my choice. Any help is appreciated...
Tiny Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 Er .............. No way man. the only "test" is her trust, which is already non- existent.
CaliGuy Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 We broke because she cheated on me but says that she did not sleep with him only messed around. I am thinking about getting back together with her, but needed to know if there was some type of medical exam like a rape test that I can have proof that she did not have sex with another man? I had heard about a gyno being able to do this..I need to know for sure..I know eventually I can trust her but right now this is what I need to make my choice. Any help is appreciated... I recommend you do not pursue this relationship until you can learn to trust her. If there is no trust there is no basis for a relationship. If I were her and I told you we didn't have sex and you acted this way, I'd tell you to take a flying leap. Either you trust her or you do not, but asking for a 'test' to see if she is lying is a ridiculous request.
riobikini Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Tiny, Caliguy...I salute (and ditto) your replies! Super! -Rio
933KJL Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Man, you need to grow up. I am with the others--trust is the issue and if you cannot forgive her and trust her word at this point, I say forget it. However, it is perfectly reasonable to request that she be tested for STDs--and you too!
Neptune Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 You should have her take a lie detector test. That would likely be able to determine it. But, it is pretty expensive, she would have to agree to it, and it doesn`t bode well for the future of a relationship. Unless, of course you both agree to periodically take lie detector tests to determine each ones faithfulness in the relationship.
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