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We broke because she cheated on me but says that she did not sleep with him only messed around. I am thinking about getting back together with her, but needed to know if there was some type of medical exam like a rape test that I can have proof that she did not have sex with another man? I had heard about a gyno being able to do this..I need to know for sure..I know eventually I can trust her but right now this is what I need to make my choice.

 

Any help is appreciated...

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Er .............. No way man. the only "test" is her trust, which is already non- existent. :(

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We broke because she cheated on me but says that she did not sleep with him only messed around. I am thinking about getting back together with her, but needed to know if there was some type of medical exam like a rape test that I can have proof that she did not have sex with another man? I had heard about a gyno being able to do this..I need to know for sure..I know eventually I can trust her but right now this is what I need to make my choice.

 

Any help is appreciated...

 

I recommend you do not pursue this relationship until you can learn to trust her. If there is no trust there is no basis for a relationship.

 

If I were her and I told you we didn't have sex and you acted this way, I'd tell you to take a flying leap.

 

Either you trust her or you do not, but asking for a 'test' to see if she is lying is a ridiculous request.

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Tiny, Caliguy...I salute (and ditto) your replies!

 

Super!

 

-Rio

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Man, you need to grow up. I am with the others--trust is the issue and if you cannot forgive her and trust her word at this point, I say forget it.

 

However, it is perfectly reasonable to request that she be tested for STDs--and you too!

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You should have her take a lie detector test. That would likely be able to determine it. But, it is pretty expensive, she would have to agree to it, and it doesn`t bode well for the future of a relationship.

 

Unless, of course you both agree to periodically take lie detector tests to determine each ones faithfulness in the relationship.

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