JasLove7 Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 I am 15 weeks and 1 day pregnant and still wondering who the father might be......i slept with 2 guys and 1 of them is my boyfriend and the other is a guy i had something with 4 yrs ago...and we had sex twice...a week after i came back from my trip i had relations with my boyfriend....which was september 5-10 ....and with the guy August 19 and the 29th...who can the father be?.....if annoyne can help me with this....it would be helpful ...please!!!!!
Trying to move on Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 The quick biology lesson would suggest you got pregnant when you ovulated, anywhere from 8 to 18 + days after your last period started. How do you know you're 15 weeks and 1 day exactly?? Ultrasound or doctor's estimate? Based on your estimate of being 15 weeks pregnant, you likely conceived around 13 weeks ago which would be the early to mid part of September. Dating a pregnancy is based on the date of the start of your last period not the date you conceived because it's so hard to pinpoint when this happens for most women. As a mommy myself, the bigger concern - since you have been having unprotected sex with different men - is are you sure you're not carrying something other than a baby? Please get yourself tested for all the STD's -- your baby can be SERIOUSLY hurt if you're infected and left untreated. PLEASE talk to your doctor about this as soon as possible out of respect and responsibility for yourself and the baby. Good luck and take care of yourself
JayKay Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 The only sure-fire way to know who the baby is is to have a DNA test done. A woman's cycles can be unpredictable. She may 'one-thousand-percent certain!' that one man is the father...when in fact another man is. We know a woman who claimed that one of my BF's friends fathered her child. She told everyone in town. My BF's friend was resigned to the fact that he was going to have a child to care for. For months he prepared for the birth of the baby and put money aside. Guess what? He finally demanded a DNA test and it turned out the baby wasn't his. The fact that you've been with more than one man really warrants a test. It's unfair to make one man raise another man's child and to believe it's his biological child. I would make sure you are getting good pre-natal care as well; you should be checked for any diseases, be taking a prenatal vitamin, eating well and getting the emtional support you need.
Kenyth Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 Get a DNA test sample from the OM. You've made a pretty big mess of things here. I don't expect it will be easy to handle this.
Author JasLove7 Posted December 24, 2005 Author Posted December 24, 2005 Well i had an ultrasound ...and found out exactly how far i am.....
amerikajin Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Try this... Pick the guy who would be least pissed about your having sex with another guy, tell him the score, get a paternity test and if there's no match, you know it's the other guy. 1
Becoming Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Try this... Pick the guy who would be least pissed about your having sex with another guy, tell him the score, get a paternity test and if there's no match, you know it's the other guy. Good show, Amerik! Ask the 4 yrs. ago guy to take the test. He probably has the least invested. Why do you want to know? You may need to know in order to take care of any Rh factors harming your next baby. But that could be done afterwards. Sometimes the blood type of the baby can rule out a particular father if you know their blood types, but I forget how this works. You could research it online.
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