JasLove7 Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 I am 15 weeks and 1 day pregnant and still wondering who the father might be......i slept with 2 guys and 1 of them is my boyfriend and the other is a guy i had something with 4 yrs ago...and we had sex twice...a week after i came back from my trip i had relations with my boyfriend....which was september 5-10 ....and with the guy August 19 and the 29th...who can the father be?.....if annoyne can help me with this....it would be helpful ...please!!!!!
AJS Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 Why are you having unprotected sex with multi partners? By not taking precautions to keep from getting pregnant, you can also end up with an STD that could kill you! No pity for self inflicted wounds.... All I can say is get a few DNA tests when your baby is born, or save yourself the trouble and terminate this pregnancy.
Friendly reply Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Be honest and tell your boyfriend the truth. You have to be willing to accept the consequences, whatever they may be.
goingforgold Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Can't you work it out from the dates? Have u had an ultra sound to know exactly how many weeks advanced you are? Have u bothered to tell the men involved that u have been sleeping around and not only getting pregnant but also having the possibilty of getting or passing on an STD. Your bf may not even want to stay with you after what you have done, better come clean with him and see where it leaves your relationship, esp if the child he is, the innocent child is going to be bought up possibly without a mum and a dad who are very much in love. To be honest, i dont want to sound bitchy, but your actions prove to me that you are way to immature and selfish to have a child.
Sami_D Posted December 24, 2005 Posted December 24, 2005 Get out a calendar and work out who it was. If it's so close you can't tell then how the Dickens are we all supposed to know? You do know when your fertile periods are..? If not I am sure someone will point you in the direction of some useful sites.
baddestboricua Posted December 26, 2005 Posted December 26, 2005 I dont know what to do well let me start at the begining i broke up with my ex about 5 months ago because of a female me and him jst started talkin again about 2 months ago before we broke up we were so in love i just got a little upset when i seen him talkin to this female that liked him at school because that would make me think he is cheating on me or messin around in some way but neways me and him started as friends then it became somthing more but the problem is he has a girl frind now the girl i thought he was messin around on me with but he is alwase commin by my house to see me and we have had sex abut four times the way he tells me he loves me i belive it and he is alwase telling me how much he wants to be with me but i cant tell becaus if he wanted to be with me as much as he says he does we would be togeather but i alwase feel that it was my fault we broke up and i cant take none of it back im so in love with him and i just dont know what to do? my friend and family say to drop him quick but they just dont understand how hard it is but they dont know how hard it is to be that inlove with someone and then drp them so quick. and the bad thing abut it is i feel as if im his rebound chick or his side chick he says its not like that because i was with him first man i dont know waht to do ... and i told him id wait for him please someone help me!!!!!!!!! so may mixed emotions
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