Treacle Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 They say it is ok for a married man to flirt with a woman that is not his wife. A bit harmless, o prove he still has it so to speak. But is i ok for a single woman to flirt with a married man, esp if he flirted with her first. a bit of flirting, a bit of teasing a few touches, eye contact, a wink and a smile. Is there any harm in that If so why and where would you put the line The reason i ask is there is this man who has done all the above and i did fall for him, still have a soft touch for him. Nothing has happened and didn't realise straight away he was married, but too late. Now i know nothing can happen between us, is it still wrong to have a bit of harmless flirting
sparticuss Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 They say it is ok for a married man to flirt with a woman that is not his wife. Now i know nothing can happen between us, is it still wrong to have a bit of harmless flirting Who is "they"???? Flirting is one of theose universal expressions often used to describe unnacceptale behaviur as if it were harmless. Flirting ranges from a wink, to a touch, to a bottom pinch, to a grope, to mutual masturbation by strangers in the midle of the dance floor, in plain sightof the spouse. Both male and female! And, in fact, if you stop and think about it, these boards are reeking with grizzling about boyfriends who look at other women. Thats it! They just look. But the gripes are made by girls who have gone the full grope on the dance floor with a stranger and then fobbed it off as "harmless flirting" The word is dredged up where it never should be and it reeks of double standards.
witabix Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 flirting n : playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest Now you tell me should married men indulge in this with someone who is not their wife/SO? I say no. Not under any circumstances. Should someone engage in this behavior with another person who is married or has an SO? Ditto. Bit black and white for me, but I have my own moral code, and that is what I live by. I would under no circumstance whatsoever engage in an activity designed to arouse sexual interest with someone who is married or has an SO. I feel I would be disrespecting the partner and their relationship. I will not tolerate myself doing this. There are plenty of single attractive females and males. Married people who behave in this fashion do not remain long in my company. I find married women behaving like this make me extrememly uncomfortable, and married men behaving like this make me feel sick. One guy in particular, married, goes round chatting and flirting with women, until his wife is around when he just sits quietly and doesn't even say hello or acknowledge the presence of women he would normally talk to. Puke making oleaginous behavior.
travellingman Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 Bit black and white for me, but I have my own moral code, and that is what I live by. It must easy when no member of the opposite sex is attracted to you.
witabix Posted December 23, 2005 Posted December 23, 2005 It must easy when no member of the opposite sex is attracted to you. Stinger!!! But wholly incorrect. I will not engage in this activity. Seems to make me even more attractive to the oppsite sex my friend.
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