ace1 Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Best Places to look for a girl..???.A good one..not a ho...
jasmine111 Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Think about your interests and go to place or club concerning it, which means when you meet a girl she'll be sure to have the same interest as you. Or you can go to a bar/night club where most people to find someone, which means lots of available women. I guess it's up to your judgement on which one's a ho and which one isn't.
ms_jnj Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Hm I wish I knew the answer to your question in reverse....how to find decent guys. People will probably recommend the bars/clubs, but my experience is that the vast majority of men and women there are hos or, well, drunks. Sorry I couldn't help....
FireReady Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 through friends I'd say. Or in a community of people with like minds. For girls for example, there's this place girlstalkaboutitall where you can connect with many women and through them meet friends and such. For everyone, a lot of times internet works. but I think through friends works best
loony Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 A good one..not a ho... Grow up and stop calling women 'hos' when you don't agree with their lifestyle. And it still takes two to have sex.
sparticuss Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Hm I wish I knew the answer to your question in reverse....how to find decent guys. People will probably recommend the bars/clubs, but my experience is that the vast majority of men and women there are hos or, well, drunks. Sorry I couldn't help.... You find them by taking your nose out of the air and looking under it. Decent guys are right under your nose. And the guys in the bars are not "hos" (What the hells that stupid expression meant to mean anyway apart from some latest meaningless word to slag off at somebody you don't like becaue you have an attitude problem) or drunks or anything else. They are just regular guys. What they are not is they are not handsome princes. You won't find them under your nose. In fact you will only find them in childrens story books, alongside fairies, goblins, witches, and santa claus. Time for a little growing up perhaps?
sparticuss Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Having blown off my little head of steam. (I'm allergic to BS y see) I'll now answer the question. Some sixty to seventy percent of all successful relationsips are started in the supermarket. Thats more than all the rest of the places put together.
witabix Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Having blown off my little head of steam. (I'm allergic to BS y see) I'll now answer the question. Some sixty to seventy percent of all successful relationsips are started in the supermarket. Thats more than all the rest of the places put together. Cool if you want to date a tin beans!
Neptune Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Some sixty to seventy percent of all successful relationsips are started in the supermarket. And most of that was in the meat section:rolleyes:
Cecelius Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Grow up and stop calling women 'hos' when you don't agree with their lifestyle. And it still takes two to have sex. I never thought of humiliating oneself by dressing skanky in meat markets, wearing belly button rings and skanky tatoos on your back and hooking up with dudes in bars as a lifestyle. I feel I have been an oppressor to a misunderstood group of people... All he means is that he doesn't want a girl who's been around the block a million times.
loony Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I never thought of humiliating oneself by dressing skanky in meat markets, wearing belly button rings and skanky tatoos on your back and hooking up with dudes in bars as a lifestyle. I feel I have been an oppressor to a misunderstood group of people... All he means is that he doesn't want a girl who's been around the block a million times. He sounds like he has issues with women. I doubt he has to worry that a 'ho' will be interested in his type of guy, so chill. The most uptight people will get upset about 'loose' people of the other gender, as if they ever got approached by them.
Walk Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I've found coffee shops, work, and friends parties (the small kind, not the wild orgy kind) are the narrow range of my dating spectrum. I met ONE guy at a bar that I actually would've considered dating, but normally I think it gives a poor first image when meeting people at the bar. First off your usually buzzing, or drunk, and the only thing they're interested in is how you look since talking is usually out of the question. Grocery stores are actually really good place, as far as meeting men. You gotta time it right though. I haven't done a full study on this, but I do know later evening is a good time. Check out the food they're carrying. If it's diapers, and beer, don't bother. The wife probably sent him out. I think gym's are considered good places, but I've found the people to be stuck up.
Lilly Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I am a personal fitness trainer and I can tell you that most of the people in gyms are stuck up and vain. All they want to do is look at themselves in the mirror.
Walk Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I am a personal fitness trainer and I can tell you that most of the people in gyms are stuck up and vain. All they want to do is look at themselves in the mirror. heh, yeah.. I knew a lady from work one time who specificially told us she went to a (expensive) gym just to pick up a rich guy. After getting dumped a couple times, she finally married a doctor. They live in seperate houses but take their vacations together to foreign countries. She refused to live in the house he'd bought several years ago because she said it wasn't nice enough for her. So they live seperately. I've never decided if thats completely assinine, or smart.
SmoochieFace Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 He sounds like he has issues with women. No, he has issues with women who are *easy*. Not the same thing as ALL women or women IN GENERAL.
l2hvn Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 try internet dating; tell your friends you are single and looking; pursue your interests/hobbies; volunteer; coffee shops; perhaps go back to school and take a crash course into something you might be interested in (like cooking, learning a new language, etc.). i've heard WalMart had this Friday Singles events in their supermarkets where single shoppers were given a ribbon to indicate they're single... i forgot which state it was... in other words, there's an endless possibilities to finding someone. the key is to be as open as possible and to not restrict yourself into the confinements of what you *think* is ideal for you.
SmoochieFace Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 i've heard WalMart had this Friday Singles events in their supermarkets where single shoppers were given a ribbon to indicate they're single... i forgot which state it was... That went on in Roanoke, VA for a while but it was stopped. Too many complaints cuz people were going there just to *hook up* and not shop.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 The last place I'd want to meet a guy is at the gym. The one I go to I try to find the least busy time. Why would I want some sweaty dude (good looking or not, he still smells bad) to see me all sweaty and smelling just as bad, my hair in a pony tail (I look like a geek in a pony tail) and makeup all sweated off...yuck! Not to mention the extra $$$ to spend on a flattering gym outfit...I'm alot more comfy in plain black shorts or sweats and a loose tshirt. I'm there to exercise, not pick up guys. So don't call me a snob or stuck up or vain. I'm training ... I'm there to exercise and I don't look my best and I don't want you to talk to me. Plus I'm shy and if a hot dude ever approached me I'd be more red from blushing than from the workout.
whichwayisup Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Through friends, or at the job - Through co-workers and/or school (University etc) or if you're taking a couse, meeting people who have the same interests as you help. I think just thinking positively, putting yourself OUT there helps alot! When you're shopping, just talk to women! Either in the grocery store, computer store, or even down the street.
Author ace1 Posted December 22, 2005 Author Posted December 22, 2005 thanks a lot for the advice......really ....I think most of you know what I mean by a "ho"...and for those of you who dont....I dont need your advice.. because if you cant differentiate between a ho and a nice clean decent woman ..your either to stupid to be able to tell the differance or you've been dropped on your head to many times when you were a kid....If I said that I just wanted a woman to have sex with...I could go get a hooker.....a ho...derived from hooker (ho)oker.....ok looney....at least you have the correct name....every one else thanks ....
Lilly Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I had a guy come up to me at the gas station while I was pumping gas and gave me his business card. I was totally shocked. At first I thought he was trying to sell me something, and then I realized he was trying to ask me out. I also had two different guys on different ocassions approach me in the supermarket and ask me out. I guess men are getting a little more bold these days. I think it takes a lot of guts to walk up to a stranger and start a conversation and then ask them out. I have to hand it to them. I know I couldn't do it.
SmoochieFace Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I think most of you know what I mean by a "ho"...and for those of you who dont....I dont need your advice.. because if you cant differentiate between a ho and a nice clean decent woman ..your either to stupid to be able to tell the differance or you've been dropped on your head to many times when you were a kid....If I said that I just wanted a woman to have sex with...I could go get a hooker.....a ho...derived from hooker (ho)oker.....ok looney....at least you have the correct name....every one else thanks .... ...
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 I thought "ho" came from the mispronunciation of "whore"
lindya Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 thanks a lot for the advice......really ....I think most of you know what I mean by a "ho"...and for those of you who dont....I dont need your advice.. because if you cant differentiate between a ho and a nice clean decent woman ..your either to stupid to be able to tell the differance or you've been dropped on your head to many times when you were a kid....If I said that I just wanted a woman to have sex with...I could go get a hooker.....a ho...derived from hooker (ho)oker.....ok looney....at least you have the correct name....every one else thanks .... Are you looking for a smart, classy girl, ace? Based on the post above, I fear it might be an uphill struggle for you. Perhaps it's time to check up on whether there are any finishing schools for men in your area.
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