Chewybrwn Posted December 21, 2005 Posted December 21, 2005 ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. and everything is all well between us. He's funny, a gentleman, communication is wonderful, and the sex is top notch. but there is one thing that bugs me about him. and its his thing with sports. i can be talking to him on the phone about something kind of important, but i know deep in my gut that if a game is on while he is chatting with me, that he is only about 23% there with me on some things we talk about. drives me nuts. id rather him let me go in most cases..and concentrate on whatever intrigues him at the moment. do i just need to chill and let it be from time to time? or say something? it only happens every once and a while. i dont want to seen like some freak who needs attention from him all the time, because i want him to do what makes him happy too. but i hate it when he ignores me like that....especially on the phone. what do you think?
basscatcher Posted December 21, 2005 Posted December 21, 2005 If you want this man and you are in love with him then you need to find something to do when he has a game he is interested in. You need to focus on something that you enjoy. If he feels ignored because you are busy with your own thing then remind him how you feel when he is wrapped up into his sports. Or join him in his affection for sports. Get invoved with it. Find out what its all about.. It kinda sounds like he is a normal man who likes sports and not a sports addict.... Sports addicts wont even talk on the phone when theirs a game on. The game will always be top priority.
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