Vic1298 Posted December 21, 2005 Posted December 21, 2005 Hi everyone!! I am a young woman in my mid 20's who just started a LDR. My bf and I have been dating for a little over a month now. I have a lot of questions about how a LDR should work and I am hoping I can get some advice. I dont know if most would consider ours a LDR because we live a little over an hour apart but with work it can make things pretty tricky. I also live at home with my parents and so I dont really ask my bf over because he wouldn't be able to stay the night after making the drive to see me. I can, however, stay the night at his house so I usually go to see him. Here are some of my questions. As our relationship has been growing I find I want to spend more and more time with him. We usually only get to see eachother on the weekends but I wouldnt mind going to see him a couple of says during the week if I can. I know that he feels bad that I am the one driving all the time. I guess I am wondering should it be up to the guy to plan the dates and ask me out? Lately I feel like I am usually the one suggesting I go see him. Dont get me wrong, I know that he is happy I visit but I just wish he would do the asking some of the time. I try to drop a hint by saying "I have the day off tomorrow" hoping that he will ask me over, but he usually doesnt take the hint. I guess my main questions are: What is the norm for how often you should see eachother in a new LDR when you live this close? Is it the guys job to always ask the girl over? Is it normal to want to see your significant other every chance you can get? And am I looking to pushy if I ask to go see him? Thnaks for your help!
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