LittleMiss Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 I can never catch a break. Last night my boyfriend of over a year came home from playing video games with one of his friends. He was already buzzing and we were not fighting or anything. Then, all of a sudden he wants to leave. And I mean leave like for good. We ended up in a huge fight. I ended up in the bedroom crying my eyes out and he was on the couch. I even broke his damn cell phone. Later, we both calmed down and started talking. It wasn't good. He pretty much told me that he doesn't love me and doesn't want to be with me anymore. I don't know what to do. I've given him everything he has ever wanted, never cheated or disrespected him or anything like that. I know I was almost the perfect girlfriend. I love him so much and to know that he never loved me is just really killing me. I feel so alone and so lost. I feel like nothing matters anymore and my life has nothing to look forward to besides my son. I can't believe after all this time he can really say he never loved me. He lied about it. How can a man do this to someone who treated him like a king?
riobikini Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 Your son is enough...but his mommy really needs to gain some introspect regarding her self respect, responsibilities, and her 'requirements' in relationships. Now is the time. Take the time way from your partner to start looking into yourself. This is not to say you are to blame for anything...I don't have that information. But there is definately something 'not right' with him. If he's just feeling a little (or a lot) cramped in the relationship and needs to re-evaluate his own 'requirements', better now than later. Let him do what he needs to to figure it out. This could take some time. Don't expect things to heal up overnight. Meanwhile.... You'll go through the usual anger, hurt, depressed stages. Stay focused on YOU, -not him. Take care of yourself and your son. Deal with what's (who's) most important to you...(clue: it's not your BF). And keep us posted. -Rio
Outcast Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 How can a man do this to someone who treated him like a king? Lots of us have made the mistake of believing that the more you love someone, the more they will love you back. That's not how life works. You definitely need to reassess your choices. And you shouldn't be breaking anybody's expensive possessions so you need to deal with whatever issues you have that are causing that sort of anger.
RZA-Man Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 I got dumped by my ex gf of 8 months out of the blue and I treated her like a queen. The only thing I can recommend is to NOT CONTACT him. This time is about you. Talk to family and friends, cry, and just wallow in self pity for a bit. You'll feel awful for a few weeks, but eventually you'll get better. DO NOT CONTACT HIM. Best of luck and remember that you deserve better than someone who'd dump you like that. His loss. Be strong!
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