meltwithme Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 Well I feel really bad about leaving voice mails and texts and being clingy after my breakup. I asked her to block me on aim so I couldnt read her away msg. I told her i loved her, got really sappy, told her I changed, got ignored, told her i hated her and she was a bitch, appologized and told her I was sorry for making things worse and told her i never had to get over a girl i loved (she was 1st love) and then i told her I dont care about what happened but asked if she could tell me when her feelings started to change so i could learn for my next relationship, only to get ignored again. Well I feel bad about all this pressure i put on her after the breakup and basically bugging her. thinking about sending her a one liner text like 'hey i feel bad about pressuring you to call me and taking out my anger on you, hope you can understand I was acting on emotion.' (prob needs editing). I think I know the answer but would this or any text like it do me any good or would it make it even worse? Maybee it's best to just let it be?
magda Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 It would just be stating the obvious. I think it's best to let it be. You sort of made a spectacle of yourself, and your latest attempt at contacting her may be interpreted as yet another tactic on your part to pressure her into talking again. Which, be honest, it probably is whether you realize it or not. She probably either wouldn't respond, or would say something like "i understand". Not worth it. I say to pass on this idea. 1
J dub Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 >I think it's best to let it be. Yep. >You sort of made a spectacle of yourself, and your latest attempt at contacting her may be interpreted as yet another tactic on your part to pressure her into talking again. Thats how I was interpreting it. >Which, be honest, it probably is whether you realize it or not. Yep. >She probably either wouldn't respond, or would say something like "i understand". EXACTLY. Who cares? >Not worth it. Not at all. > I say to pass on this idea. I agree 100%. Youve said enough, by leaving her alone it speaks volumes louder than any "sorry" text EVER will.
Author meltwithme Posted December 20, 2005 Author Posted December 20, 2005 Thanks! You all are awesome
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