Outcast Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 perhaps if kangaboy had said straight up, "i can't do this trip. and no, i don't want you to plan another one if i can't go because i don't want you and bed-sharing boy there without me, Yeah. THEN he'd be called 'controlling'. Which he didn't want so he suggested, as non-controllingly as he could, that he'd prefer you not go to these sorts of activities.
Author kanga Posted December 22, 2005 Author Posted December 22, 2005 UGH. But that's so much more direct. Thank goodness for LS. Happy ending so far is that we saw each other yesterday and today (only for a few hours for lunch) and had two very funfilled times.
EnigmaXOXO Posted December 22, 2005 Posted December 22, 2005 Yeah. THEN he'd be called 'controlling'. Which he didn't want so he suggested, as non-controllingly as he could, that he'd prefer you not go to these sorts of activities. Or he'll be called "insecure" because he's not comfortable with other guys sharing his girlfriend. At least you came clean, Kanga. Got to give you kudos for that! It sounds as if you've landed yourself a real great guy. Given the rest of the story, I can say he's a lot more patient and tolerant then a lot of folks would be under similar circumstances. Glad the two of you are talking and trying to work things out. If you decide this relationship stuff is a bit too smothering for you, there's a lot of beautiful young ladies on the forum who are stuck with jerks and might LOVE to have this guy's number. Treat him right, sweetie … or you might lose him.
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