melbourneboy Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 Hey guys ohh this is so embarrassing and im really not to sure why it is happening. My Girlfriend and I have been together 6 months, but didnt have sex until about 2 months ago and everytime for some unknown strange reason as soon as i get inside her I blow i just cannot control my self i dont know what it is about her or me but what is wrong with me. This has never ever happened to me in my Past relationships or anyone else i have ever has sex with only her. It is embarrassing to say the least i just really want to make her happy and she tells me it doesnt matter and she gets anoyed when i wont stop appologising Has this happned to anyone else before.?? Im in desperate need of help becuase im hesitant to even Try and have sex with her because im scared of this happening again. and it has happned about 4-5 times now. a few weeks ago i started taking Wyld for men because i thought that would help me. Obviously no Luck, according to the packet its ment to give u more stamina and Endurance when in the Bedroom and lift Libido, althou the Labido part has never been a problem for me im always up and ready for action. Anyone got some advice as of what i can do about it/ thanks..................
Lishy Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 Hey hon - Well I had the same problem with a guy I was with. He kept telling me that I must think he is useless in bed and that he is so sorry. I liked him so much that even though I was 'slightly' peeved that he couldnt last longer I didnt mind (plus he made up for it on other areas) Ok my suggestion is this (this is what I did with him) I realised that what I was doing with him before we had sex was getting him so pent up that he was ready to blow BEFORE we even had sex - So we just kept the foreplay going for an hour or so and by the time we had full sex I had already cum a few times and I wasnt bothered that the actual penetration only lasted a few minutes. Plus he would stop when he thought he was going to cum. He told me that this only happened with me as well (but I am not so sure about that) Oh and I have a friend at the moment with the other problem, her boyfriend takes about an hour to cum!!!!!!! THAT is far worse as he sometimes loses his erection and it makes her feel like he doesnt fancy her, or he finds her body a turnoff - So from a womans point of view I would rather a guy cum too quick then lose his erection. Make her feel wanted and loved (and try having a wank an hour before you see her) Try stopping when you feel it building, and try RELAXING - The more you worry over this the worse it will be for you. She likes you babe she is still around - Stop saying sorry and getting busy with ya tongue hahahhahah Good luck!!!!!!!!!
Author melbourneboy Posted December 19, 2005 Author Posted December 19, 2005 Thanks heaps for your Reply. I think next time i might try that having a wank before i go and see her, i really feel that im letting her down everytime it happens even thou she tells me its no big deal and we can work on it so i appreciate how willing she is to give me a chance. Its hard thinking i will never be able to please her sexually and eventually she will go off and find it somewhere else. so im trying to get it all together and make this work. I dont understand how its only happned with this one person before, im not to sure if its how much i love her because i have never felt such a strong love for any previous sexual partners does it have anything to do with having such stong Feelings for her.? the whole stopping when i feel it building up doesnt really happen because honestly i dont even get the chance to stop it happens like not even after a min im talking seconds owwww its so embarrassing. Has anyone ever used that Naisel spray technology that they advertise on the radio to prevent premeture ejaculation? just want to know if anyone has used this and does it accually work?? maybe its something that i will have to consider if i cant get my **** together. Anyways thanks for the Help !! : D
Lishy Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 Have you tried doing it again after you have cum? The second time always lasts longer!
Clone56 Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 True dat..during the 2nd time me and my girl went at it for 2 hours before..was nutz..was pretty tired afterwards
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