Confused2121 Posted December 18, 2005 Posted December 18, 2005 I have met this girl and we have been out a couple of times and I really like her and I think she feels the same as we always have a great time. I feel there is a problem as she is very highly educated and in the process to become a doctor. I myself am educated also but not as highly as her and am a computer consultant making O.K money but highly enjoy what I do. Sometimes I feel that I am not good enough for her and she could be with any man she wants who is twice as smart as I am. I know I might be over analyzing things here but that is my job to go into businesses and analyze what they have, need, or want based on what they show me. Doing this 40 hours a week you start analyzing everything including relationships. I have not talked to her about this as I feel I might open a can of worms but I feel if I don't do something about this I am going to go nuts and lose her. I feel I am now really trying hard not to look like a fool when we are out and make mistakes because sometimes I feel I am clumsy. I now feel that I am showing that I am too guarded and am not showing her who I really am. I am really starting to feel that my greatest flaw is myself and if I just overcome this then everything will be O.K. Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I need anything you can give me. Thanks in advance.
stevestunts Posted December 18, 2005 Posted December 18, 2005 hey there you should just not think about status so much cus you will turn into your own enemy. most guys are probally really intimidated by a successful intelligent women which is kinda a negative thing towards them. just be a man and remember its not your job status that allows you to have such a great time when your out, right? its you. secondly is she an computer consultant... does she know how to analyze the way you do? probally not, so its most likely interesting to her in some shape or form, which is the same for you about her job i hope. i think the best thing you can do for her and yourself is just support her in her endeavours and the favour will be returned. theres no sense in bringing others who you like down cus of insecurities, so i wouldn't mention it. so just work on it thats all. good luck... im sure you'll do just fine
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