consumed Posted December 16, 2005 Posted December 16, 2005 I had the most vivid dream of my ex I think I've ever had last night and it's brought me a downer of a day. I was back in her small town and things were good again. Now I can't stop thinking about her today and it sucks because I've been feeling realy great as of late. It's been a month and a some and I've been keeping busy with work and keeping her off my mind. Now today it's like this healing hasn't even started.. I feel like crap again..
magda Posted December 16, 2005 Posted December 16, 2005 This happens to me sometimes, still, with people I haven't seen in years. I'll dream about them even if I haven't thought about them since after the last inconvenient dream. I suggest replacement. Start thinking of another ex, or just anyone you've had a crush on before. Read a book, watch a movie, whatever gets you by.
newbby Posted December 16, 2005 Posted December 16, 2005 you may think youre back where you started, but you will find it takes less time, to work through the feelings each time it comes back.
symbol Posted December 16, 2005 Posted December 16, 2005 I had the most vivid dream of my ex I think I've ever had last night and it's brought me a downer of a day. I was back in her small town and things were good again. Now I can't stop thinking about her today and it sucks because I've been feeling realy great as of late. It's been a month and a some and I've been keeping busy with work and keeping her off my mind. Now today it's like this healing hasn't even started.. I feel like crap again.. Consumed, I am going through a very similar thing lately. It's been 7 weeks since my ex dumped me and 6 weeks of NC. I was thinking that I was doing really good. I even started concentrating on my work and I was making great progress. But then last week, I started having dreams about my ex. First, it was his father, he was really upset with me in my dream. (His family and I were very close and I haven't talked to them after the break up, so I am feeling a little guilty.) Then I saw my ex himself. In one of the dreams, he was begging me to start over again and in another, he was telling me that there is no way for us to get together again. And this week has been terrible, I feel like I am right back at square 1. It is as if he dumped me a week ago. I really don't know when (or if) I will get over him and really start moving on... I guess both you and me still need some time to heal. Good luck. S.
itwontdawnsooner Posted December 16, 2005 Posted December 16, 2005 dreams aren't real for a reason. you dont see these people in real life for a reason. i know the feeling, the ones that seem real can really bring you down. just keep in mind, people become your past and not your future for a reason (I read that somewhere else, not my quote, but I agree with it!)
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