ashley83 Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 Ok, tell me why a guy would break up w/ me when I'm known around here as good-looking by every guy, and my bf acknowledges that. I'm 100 times cuter than his mom and both is sister-in-laws, and he breaks up w/ me and says that he doesn't love me like his brother loves his wife and like his dad loves his mother after saying he loves me more than anything for so long??? The fact that I have a good personality is a given. Why would a guy do this?
2p worth Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 If a guy says he doesn't love you, then you can be pretty sure that he doesn't. What you look like and your personality makes no difference. Different people like different things. Be thankful for what he has told you and move on... This guy has done you a favour by being honest.
Author ashley83 Posted December 15, 2005 Author Posted December 15, 2005 He said that...but then ended the phone call...."I love you"
RainyDayWoman Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 maybe it's because you're self-centered and have an ego that rivals the size of texas? just taking a guess. and the fact that you have a "good personality" is not given...what you think is "good" someone else may take as abrasive or annoying.
Author ashley83 Posted December 15, 2005 Author Posted December 15, 2005 No, my ex's personallity is abrasive and annoying lol. I'm really mild and quiet. That's why every one is so happy we're broken up, but I'm not.
JS17 Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 maybe it's because you're self-centered and have an ego that rivals the size of texas? just taking a guess. and the fact that you have a "good personality" is not given...what you think is "good" someone else may take as abrasive or annoying. :lmao: could it be?
2p worth Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 This guy was being honest by telling you he doesn't love you. That was hard - but it had to be said. Ignore his parting shot at the end of the call, it was manipulation. I'm sure he regretted it as soon as he put the phone down.
RainyDayWoman Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 I merely know my worth it's one thing to merely know it, but it's quite another to broadcast it. that's all.
Art_Critic Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 The fact that I have a good personality is a given. .....If I had a dollar for the women that I've heard that from.. They call that arrogance.. and maybe that is why he broke up with you..
RainyDayWoman Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 .....If I had a dollar for the women that I've heard that from.. They call that arrogance.. and maybe that is why he broke up with you.. ding ding ding!!!
Devils Advocate Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 ding ding ding!!! I couldn't have stated the answer more succinctly than that.
fomerlyniceguy Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 Looks like I will have to put on my sarcasm specs now. Ok, tell me why a guy would break up w/ me when I'm known around here as good-looking by every guy, and my bf acknowledges that. The fact that I have a good personality is a given. Why would a guy do this? Hmmm. Sounds like you are nearly the complete package, must be something else. Do you drive a nice car? How big are your boobs? Are you wearing the right Jeans? I'm 100 times cuter than his mom and both is sister-in-laws Did he actually say this? If so he has issues, I have never compared any of my SO's to my mother but that is just me. If you really want to know what it is ask him, but be prepared to hear "I don't know" sometimes attraction can't be explained.
itwontdawnsooner Posted December 20, 2005 Posted December 20, 2005 looks, personality, whatever you do or dont have is not the whole picture - its how you mesh with the other person's set of qualities being convinced your 100x better or whatever than someone else doesnt mean every person will want you, its how well you connect
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