celtic05 Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 ok people keep telling me to lose my fear...........i will tell you my problem again i meet my girlfriend on weekends because i have confidence in me when i am drunk and have tried to meet her sober but when we do meet sober we never talk about anything and just stand there and look different ways.its because i have things going on in my head focusing to much on myself and being really paranoid i mean really really paranoid plus nervous as hell and i have low self asteem too.so can anyone tell me some good advice are tell me how to lose your fear because i keep tryin to lose my fear but it seems impossible.....plz help!!!!
JS17 Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 There's a thread that's been going on for a while that addresses social anxiety. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t67394/?highlight=social+anxiety Take a read through it and see if there's anything in there that helps you. Personally, I've never gotten over my fears but I've pushed through them enough where I'm not completely paralyzed when talking to love interests. It's really tough so I understand but you can do it. Again, you may be able to relax and talk to her better once you are more comfortable with her. I still think you're best doing activities together that require less talking until you become more comfortable. I also think you need to address your fears. A fear of something is holding you back from being curious about this girl enough to ask questions. I'm sure there are things you want to know about her.
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