queenie01 Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 Yeah so today my ex decided to talk to me in the gym and i realized i really dont like talking to him...it makes me sad. He came up to me and said hey and then took his head phones off so i took mine off. He asked how ive been i said good and asked him the same. He told me he wanted to tell me his new goal which was to quit smoking and run some 5k... yeah like i care. He asked me how my thanksgiving was i asked the same...basically we just chit chatted back and forth for 5minutes or so...nothing to exciting going on with him. He said he is a booze hound. was at the bar from 12-9 on sunday...thats a turn on.. HA! So i am sort of down now because whenever i talk to him i think of "us" How exciting is his life when all he does is go to the bars every weekend...i guess i will never understand but its all his choice. Just sad with xmas coming since last year we spent it together and it was amazing.
cynicalnlove Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 Yeah so today my ex decided to talk to me in the gym and i realized i really dont like talking to him...it makes me sad. He came up to me and said hey and then took his head phones off so i took mine off. He asked how ive been i said good and asked him the same. He told me he wanted to tell me his new goal which was to quit smoking and run some 5k... yeah like i care. He asked me how my thanksgiving was i asked the same...basically we just chit chatted back and forth for 5minutes or so...nothing to exciting going on with him. He said he is a booze hound. was at the bar from 12-9 on sunday...thats a turn on.. HA! So i am sort of down now because whenever i talk to him i think of "us" How exciting is his life when all he does is go to the bars every weekend...i guess i will never understand but its all his choice. Just sad with xmas coming since last year we spent it together and it was amazing. Gosh I'm sorry to hear. I don't know why these people always come into our lives to shake things up. Is there another Gym you could go to without the risk of running into him? I know everytime i think of my ex, i cringe at the very thought. Just try to do everything to avoid it at all cost.
Author queenie01 Posted December 14, 2005 Author Posted December 14, 2005 Thanks...its sort of hard since we work together and the gym is downstairs. I switched my time so that i only see him 2 times a week now rather than 5. Just wish he worked somewhere else. The holiday seasons sort of stink and Christmas is my favorite...last year was the best!! Oh well at least i know hes just out there partying and hasnt replaced me, still stinks tho.
cynicalnlove Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 Thanks...its sort of hard since we work together and the gym is downstairs. I switched my time so that i only see him 2 times a week now rather than 5. Just wish he worked somewhere else. The holiday seasons sort of stink and Christmas is my favorite...last year was the best!! Oh well at least i know hes just out there partying and hasnt replaced me, still stinks tho. Yeah i know, the feeling of being replaced. Its not as if he had replaced you, its just that he found someone else to put up with his BS. Yikes, working together sucks - have you tried dating other people?
Author queenie01 Posted December 15, 2005 Author Posted December 15, 2005 Well he hasnt replaced me, hes still single as has been ever since he broke up with me. I sort of get the feeling that he just wanted to live his life and not miss out on anything... I have already done that. The bar scene is only fun for so long then you get burnt out. My guy friends tell me that being single for a guy is only fun for so long, its expensive and it gets lonely. Who knows tho....we have already been broken up for 7 months so i gave up hope. I still think about him a lot and miss him just because we had such a great relationship, i always wished he would come back. I have tried dating other people and was actually really into one guy but then he moved away : ( Trust me im not sitting around rotting over here but still miss him lots and wish things would have worked out differently and i would always like to believe that he thinks of me too and im thinking the holidays will make him think too..
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