noclobber Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 I am not sure whether I am the only one that feels like this or are there other men like me... I feel that if I want to start dating there are way too many obstacles... most of the women seem to have a boyfriend already, those that have broken up are yet to get over their ex, the women that are single and are friends won't date because i happen to be their friend, and finally the ones that are single and not my friends may not be attracted or interested in a romantic way... this is very scary and i feel very discouraged... i am seriously surprised when i walk on the road and see couples everywhere... how come its easy for them and not for me? am i doing something wrong or am i inadequate in some ways? i dunno... i am not in college and i work full-time... so that makes it even more difficult for me.. and i stay clear from the online dating sites.. i am asian as well.. can u guys suggest how i can meet new people and start a dating relationship with them.. hopefully i don't meet insane women like the last one that i met... the one that refused to date me b'cos i am not a Jew.. ideas and suggestions would be greatly appreciated
Becoming Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 Don't frequent synagogues? (just kidding) Your signature quotation indicates you're a seeker. Have you tried church or a class of some sort that you're interested in (art, fishing, stained glass . . . whatever)?
Author noclobber Posted December 14, 2005 Author Posted December 14, 2005 Don't frequent synagogues? (just kidding) Your signature quotation indicates you're a seeker. Have you tried church or a class of some sort that you're interested in (art, fishing, stained glass . . . whatever)? hahaha... i dare not go near synagogues i haven't tried any class... i wud be interested in art though... is it a good way to meet singles? by taking classes?
Kitteney Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 Those are some excellent ideas... and don't forget you can always get involved with some community service organization. Become a disaster relief volunteer for the red cross. find out how you can organize a blood drive for your local blood bank--an added plus, most of the regular donors are probably disease free. Go to the animal shelter and see if they'll let you walk the dogs. The point is, you are bound to meet like-minded people if you go out and get involved in something that interests you.
Xoxogirl Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 Awww I am sorry Noclobber. I am in the same boat, and can sense your pain. Where are all the good single people hiding! I am sure we will both find someone when the time is right as others seem to suggest.
kitkat826 Posted December 14, 2005 Posted December 14, 2005 I would bet that a lot of the couples that you envy on the street have neither happy nor healthy relationships. geez, somebody sounds bitter today...
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