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[BrknHrt]

OK, I'm about to have a nervous breakdown. I need to stop going on MySpace. I just looked at a former friend's page and the ex's new girlfriend is now friends with her. Left her a message about how my ex told her he loved her. They've been together a month! Me and the ex have only been broken up since the 2nd week of November. I am about to cry. How can somebody who stayed with you for 5 years and said they loved you, couldn't live without you, and were going to marry you do something like this?? I feel like I'm back at square one.

[patwheel]

Friendster, Myspace, and all those sites are the same...Meat Market!

 

NC means also not going to her myspace page, or any friend that are not connected to her. You're only torturung yourself.

 

On the other hand, she's probably not doing that on purpose, and probably is not evil. Dont put too much thought into it, they are probably not doing it on purpose to hurt you. To them, its not about you, its about them now.

[Art_Critic]

What is it with myspace?.. I don't even know anyone who goes there ..

 

 

I agree with patwheel.. You need to stop going there.. it is like doing a drive by of her house.

[itwontdawnsooner]

dont go back on myspace, dont check away message on AIM, this is all bad believe me, its such a temptation but...AHHH. 9 times out of 10 it hurts you.

 

when you do go back on (give it more time), first thing you do, delete them from friends - comments, messages, everything must go away... thats how i do it at least. it helps

[bendit]

myspace must be awful for folks who have pages up along with their exes. Very tough to cope with. One thing you might try is to restrict the site by entering the address in your Internet Router restricted sites list. It can still be circumvented but it takes a while and gives you time to think. Good luck.

 

regards

[jacked17]

Broken Heart you and I have so much in common. I get in trouble when I look at myspace and when I look at my ex's aim profile because I see someone else's name in her profile and it makes me go nuts. I feel your pain. Just don't look. It's so hard but stay away for awhile.

[sick of it]

Please listen to everyone!. Take them off your AIM list. DO NOT GO TO Myspace!!!!

out of curiosity one day i checked to see if my ex was on myspace...she was. i never knew she had an account there and i found all these friends of hers that i didnt know she had. people i never met. she was talking about things i never knew about. it killed me and made me start over. NC means not seeing, hearing anything about them. start now or the last thing you find out is going to stay with you. you will start dwelling on it. please please dont do it. ive been doing it for 7 months and its only recently started to get better because i stopped looking!!!

[BrknHrt]

I know ya'll are going to fuss at me, but I broke NC. My ex and I have a class together and we had our final exam last night. Well he sat right freaking next to me which pissed me off even more (I was already mad because I was told his girlfriend has been reading my MySpace page and telling him about the guy I'm sort of seeing). So I called him when we got out of class and asked him to come get his go-cart out of my backyard and told him to just leave me alone(i.e. quit asking friends about me and quit having his gf look at my page). Well when I hung up I wanted to cry so bad and was hurt all over again, but I couldn't cry and now I just feel numb. It doesn't even hurt like I thought it would. What does that mean? Am I getting over him?

[riobikini]

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