lostchia06 Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 So I met this guy through a mutual friend (MF). I think I could always tell he was interested when ever I saw him around but I never thought much of it. Recently we have been hanging out more and more. It started about 2 weekes ago when I was at the bar with our MF and he walked in. My friend had to leave early and I decided to stay with this guy and some of his friends. We talked had a good time and when it was time for me to leave we said our good-byes. Later that week I'm with my MF again and he calls to hangout with him. He meets up with us and a few other friends and we all go out. We his friends birthday party and continue on to a neighborhood bar. At the bar we end up getting kinda of close and kissed a few times. Around 2am my friend leaves to help some friends find their hotel and we go on to another party together and end up meeting up with my friend later. After we all meet up again around 3am we hangout for another hour then I said goodbye and go crash at another friends house for the night. The next day I get an email from him saying how great of a time he had and he'd call soon which he did by the middle of the next week. I was with friends so I end up not seeing him. The next night I do give him a call and end up going over to his place. We hangout there then go out to a few parties and end up at our another one of our friends places and crash there together in a spare room. We shared a bed but nothing happened. On Friday I had to work (i'm a waitress at the bar we met at) but he was hanging out with our MF and stops by and asks me if I want to just stay at his place instaed of taking a cab back to my apt. I said yes and he went back to his friends and showed up around 2am and we went back to his place and slept. On Saturday night I go out to dinner with our MF and head back to my best friends place to hangout until we find something to do. He calls me around 6 that days saying he has to take care of something but would like to hangout later and that hed give me a call. He calls back around 9 and asks if I want to head to the bar with him and some friends. I tell him I'll come out a little later because I had just started playing a drinking game with some friends. I go into the city around 12am and meet up with him at a friends place and we walk to the neighborhood bar. On the way we pick up our MF and have a beer at last call and head back to MF's room where we stay until 5am. We go back to his place and while sitting on his couch he picks me up and carries me over to his bed and we go to sleep. I end up staying there until 3pm the next day and only force myself to leave because I have so much work to do. The problem is: I am a 21 yr old college student and am not used to this behavior from guys. Is he interested and being sweet or does his just want to just be my friend? I have no idea how to read this situation. Just for the record: we've only kissed and spent the night together.
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