stevev28 Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 OK here's the deal. I'm a fireman on the southern end of my county. Well On the north end there is a young lady fireman that I think is absolutely gorgeous. We are both officers in our respective departments and have the some of the same interests obviously. I'm completely infatuated with her. Well the deal is that I am pretty sure she doesn't know I even exist. I really want to meet this girl but I don't want to come across stalkerish. I'm sure we have aqaintances in common I just haven't found any that I trust yet to introduce us. I'm looking for suggestions. Please help me out. Any creative ideas? I don't want to scare her away. Thanks, Steve
Author stevev28 Posted December 19, 2005 Author Posted December 19, 2005 Well, She knows I'm alive. I have a blind date with her Friday. I got a buddy of mine that works with her to give her my number. I'm kind nervous. Thinking about where I wanna take her. The phone conversation we had was very short and kinda awkward. I hope I'll be able to get comfortable pretty quick while we're on our date. Any ideas on good places to go for a first date? I wonder if she's as nervous as I am? I can't wait. Stevev28
whichwayisup Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 Have fun, try not to be nervous! Ask her lots of questions about her, be courteous, friendly and FUNNY! Do dinner and maybe a walk afterwards. Don't do the crowded bar scene! Too loud and neither of you will hear eachother talking! Good luck and let us know how it goes!
kitkat826 Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 I was going to make a comment about how how sexy I find firemen to be...then I realized that since she's one too and works with them all day, any excitement has probably worn off by now... The best first dates I've had have included good conversation over dinner...that way if things are going well, we can continue on to a drink or something similar, but there's no pressure either way. Also, if you want to peak her interest and gain her respect, don't attempt to slob her down at the end of the date. A simple peck should suffice.
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