maja Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right forum for my question, but I'll try... I live in a state where obviously now it's winter and it's freezing, so when I get home from what ever I'm doing, I like to wear my boyfriends sweatshirts, pajama pants, socks, ect. Well tonight he hurt my feelings by saying that I don't look sexy dressing like that, I told him that it's too cold for me to hang out in Victoria Secret sexy lingerie and what does he say? well you can't be comftarable and look sexy at the same time. What do you guys/ladies suggest I do? Do you think he'll find long satin shirts and pajama pants sexy then? what the hell do you guys like? thanks!
witabix Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Ha ha ha, sorry for giggling.... Yesterday, Sunday my g/f stayed around my flat, she had no clothes to wear, she wore a long sleeved black shirt of mine, my black jogging pants, my black socks and my black boxer shorts. She is 5'4" and slim whilst I am 6'3" and heavily built. She looked f***ing gorgeous! She always does no matter what she is wearing. She came to bed wearing my boxers, and I even think she went to work with them on!! That to me is cool, don't know why.
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 drop dead gorgeous! a beautiful smile! dark brown / black hair! chilled out / doesn't ask me what i do for a living! is a good musician! i.e. my ex girlfriend... sorry!
johan Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Solution: wear the lingerie OVER the sweatshirts and pajama pants and socks, etc. That way you can be warm for you and hot for him at the same time. I feel like I'm the only one who ever thinks around here.
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 she also wore a dress worn by Andrea Corr one night ( you know The Corrs from Ireland? famous pop/irish band! ) i swear she looked god damn drop gorgeous i'm never going to get over her!
Outcast Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Solution: wear the lingerie OVER the sweatshirts and pajama pants and socks, etc. That way you can be warm for you and hot for him at the same time. I feel like I'm the only one who ever thinks around here ROTFLMAO! Get warm things that also cling. Not impossible to find but they do exist.
witabix Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Solution: wear the lingerie OVER the sweatshirts and pajama pants and socks, etc. That way you can be warm for you and hot for him at the same time. I feel like I'm the only one who ever thinks around here. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Sorted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
witabix Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 ROTFLMAO! Get warm things that also cling. Not impossible to find but they do exist. Hey Outcast............. NAPALM........... Warm and clings, right?
gfto Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Was he joking at all? or, was he totally serious? What a dumb thing to say to a woman. I can't even answer your question. I think my gf looks good whether she's wearing something from vickie's secret, or a sweat suit.
Author maja Posted December 13, 2005 Author Posted December 13, 2005 Ha ha ha, sorry for giggling.... Yesterday, Sunday my g/f stayed around my flat, she had no clothes to wear, she wore a long sleeved black shirt of mine, my black jogging pants, my black socks and my black boxer shorts. She is 5'4" and slim whilst I am 6'3" and heavily built. She looked f***ing gorgeous! She always does no matter what she is wearing. She came to bed wearing my boxers, and I even think she went to work with them on!! That to me is cool, don't know why. haha well i need a man like you then!! The thing is, is that he finds me sexy all the time when we go out. He loved my fashion style and he's always smilling, but we live together and I do that all the time, so maybe he just got bored of it and now he wants to see some more skin?
Craig Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Hey, just turn the heat up and put on the VS. When he complains that it's too hot just say, "well you can't be comftarable and have me look sexy at the same time."
Neptune Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Lose that guy and come fly away with me:cool:
witabix Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 "He loved my fashion style and he's always smilling, but we live together and I do that all the time, so maybe he just got bored of it and now he wants to see some more skin?" One thing I have to say here, I understand the "she walks around like a _________" fill in the blank yourself. When a person stops trying to look nice for their partner it can be "PERCEIVED" as an issue. Your comfort is important of course, maybe he was feeling frisky and wanted you to slip into something more less than you had on? Its a bugbear of a situation, I have experienced this. Won't go out to buy a loaf of bread without full war paint on, in case "someone sees her". But will sit round the house like a baglady because "its only you looking at me" so it doesn't matter, if thats the situation he may be ................... I cannot think of a word to describe how that feels, like you are nobody important. I am sure thats not the case with you but its just a suggestion.
Becoming Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Solution: wear the lingerie OVER the sweatshirts and pajama pants and socks, etc. That way you can be warm for you and hot for him at the same time. I feel like I'm the only one who ever thinks around here. Fabulous! :laugh:
Outcast Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 NAPALM........... Warm and clings, right? A tad overmuch, methinks.
Saharan Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Hey, just turn the heat up and put on the VS. When he complains that it's too hot just say, "well you can't be comftarable and have me look sexy at the same time." Brilliant.
JS17 Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Solution: wear the lingerie OVER the sweatshirts and pajama pants and socks, etc. That way you can be warm for you and hot for him at the same time. I feel like I'm the only one who ever thinks around here. Hey, just turn the heat up and put on the VS. When he complains that it's too hot just say, "well you can't be comftarable and have me look sexy at the same time." Lose that guy and come fly away with me What's been going on here tonight?
Kitteney Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Ha ha ha, sorry for giggling.... Yesterday, Sunday my g/f stayed around my flat, she had no clothes to wear, she wore a long sleeved black shirt of mine, my black jogging pants, my black socks and my black boxer shorts. She is 5'4" and slim whilst I am 6'3" and heavily built. She looked f***ing gorgeous! She always does no matter what she is wearing. She came to bed wearing my boxers, and I even think she went to work with them on!! That to me is cool, don't know why. it's cool because someone's in looooooooove.
whichwayisup Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right forum for my question, but I'll try... I live in a state where obviously now it's winter and it's freezing, so when I get home from what ever I'm doing, I like to wear my boyfriends sweatshirts, pajama pants, socks, ect. Well tonight he hurt my feelings by saying that I don't look sexy dressing like that, I told him that it's too cold for me to hang out in Victoria Secret sexy lingerie and what does he say? well you can't be comftarable and look sexy at the same time. What do you guys/ladies suggest I do? Do you think he'll find long satin shirts and pajama pants sexy then? what the hell do you guys like? thanks! I couldn't care less what I look like when I'm cold. I have full length longjohns (kinda like a bodysuit and ha! Even with a trapdoor at the rear of them!)I wear around the house, they're loose and tight in other areas...I know they're not sexy, my hubby has told me he hates that I wear it, so not sexy and I just laugh it off. I think it's a comfort level too, so if it does matter to you what he thinks, then next time he makes a comment like that, play it up! Don't get upset, start stripping, one clothing item at a time...Playful and tease him, ask him, DOES this look better? What about now? Etc...You get my drift here?
malachai Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Personally, I love when a girl looks at ease wearing whatever she's wearing. I always got turned on completely when my ex-gf used to wear loose sweatpants and a t-shirt because she looked so damn comfortable. I loved it I understand how guys like seeing a girl in some ultra-fancy lingerie, but for me, when a girl is wearing a thong and she's walking around like a cowboy who just got off a bull, i find that to be just irritating. But that's my tastes, and everyone has their own. My advice, wear what you feel good in in the winter. If you do dress up for him, then make hime wear what you want, like firefighter pants and a helmet. Or whatever turns you on. Shoot, I don't know anymore what women find attractive.
Ms_Sweetness Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 I understand how guys like seeing a girl in some ultra-fancy lingerie, but for me, when a girl is wearing a thong and she's walking around like a cowboy who just got off a bull, i find that to be just irritating. LMAO:lmao: :lmao:
Becoming Posted December 15, 2005 Posted December 15, 2005 Is Malachi's avatar Slubber's secret son? Seriously, have you tried silk? It's warm and feels good to you and your SO. Sitting here in my bathrobe and husband's socks, however, I am in no position to give fashion advice. It's miserably cold here, too.
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